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When I want to go shoping, see a movie, participate in a social activity and so on,there`s always a friend I could find to accompany me. Being the only child in my family, I am clearly aware that I am exactly the one, which my friends think about, need to confide to others and be consorted with. Fortunately they are always ready when I turn to them for help~
However deep in agony sometimes, looking over my phone book from top to bottom, no one is my best option for a call, or once I called only to find it that I turned out not to say anything beyond expectation at that momont.
安妮寶貝 said " 已經無法對任何一個人說出心中的周折." You can share the happiness and glory with others, but it`s the misery and pressure that you must undertake by youself.
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- Reply asacao
- Sometimes it really happens, browse all the contacts but find no one to talk with and which makes to feel more lonely. but still need to going on with the life, then with the comfort that To become more strong. hehe
- Reply Houston
- It may be not true...
I am just opposite to you. I can hardly find a friend to go shopping or have classes together in my univeristy. I don't mean that they get along ill with me. We just don't have such deep relationship. They like playing computer games and they have their game friends. We are not the same people. But I have two very good friends made in junior school in my hometown. They are real friends who can sacrifice themselves to help each other and share joy and sorrow together, which I think so at least.
So you just lack a real friend. It's no easy job to find one actually. But please don't lose your heart. To treat a friend who you think of a chance becoming your real friend by heart and you'll be repaid~
- Reply woods
- No one to talk about it,So you can be easier to forget it.Haha,get rid of those unhappiness as soon as possible.
- Reply amy0708
- We may often have a state of nervous excitement or confusion; a dither.We must face myself.No one can help you.So,we think it over.
I like a friend to share my happiness, not pain.If choice to say,the pain will be like a snowball snowball.
- Reply RachelBear
- asacao: Sometimes it really happens, browse all the contacts but find no one to talk with and which makes to feel more lonely. but still need to going on withyou`ve enlighten me on the saying that being alone can also make me stronger......
thx~
- Reply RachelBear
- Houston: It may be not true...um....perhaps the situation of me is not as what you said.I have several real friends.But you know, there`s still something truly embarassing and miserable I`ll hesitate to open my mind to them.....
I am just opposite to you. I can hardly find a friend to go shopping or have classes together in my univeristy. I don't mean tha
I don`t know why but just confused by how to start the topic.Maybe deep in heart,everyone want to keep her own secrets,even though just few.
I guess that you also won`t tell ur best frds, who you made in junior school in your hometown, everything you want to tell.Is it true?
- Reply RachelBear
- woods: No one to talk about it,So you can be easier to forget it.Haha,get rid of those unhappiness as soon as possible.yeah~you`re right~and the more I say, the more pain I `ll suffer~it`s unwise~
so I`ll cure my heart by myself~
thx~
- Reply RachelBear
- amy0708: We may often have a state of nervous excitement or confusion; a dither.We must face myself.No one can help you.So,we think it over.I can`t agree with you more~confiding may enable my sorrow to relief, but which is based on passing them to my frds....
I like a friend to
I`ll try hard to deal with the diffucuty by myself~
thank you~
- Reply Houston
- RachelBear: um....perhaps the situation of me is not as what you said.I have several real friends.But you know, there`s still something truly embarassing and miseHehe, maybe you are right. I didn't tell them which girl I like hehe~
It is fine to keep some secrets from others for everyone need some space for his own especially girls. So you needn't worry about who to call.
I begin to understand and appreciate your words that"You can share the happiness and glory with others, but it`s the misery and pressure that you must undertake by youself."~
- Reply RachelBear
- Houston: Hehe, maybe you are right. I didn't tell them which girl I like hehe~thanks for your appreciation~
It is fine to keep some secrets from others for everyone need some space for his
perhaps gradually we`ll begin to enjoy the process of handling the difficulties and negative emotions on our own~it`s a feeling of success~
- Reply Houston
- RachelBear: thanks for your appreciation~Hehe, so I take it as a normal life.
perhaps gradually we`ll begin to enjoy the process of handling the difficulties and negative emotions on our own~it`s a
We'll meet with some obstacles on the way of life, we stop and think it over. Then we try to get it over. This is what we call growing. In the meanwhile, we can be stronger and more mature~
- Reply catnfish
- I think to some extent we can only keep something with ourselves. Once a psychologist said that the mind of human can be divided into 7 layers. we can share the information at the first 5 layers with others-- our friends/family or even strangers.
the 6th one is something we only keep to ourselves.
and the top 7th? there's something we even don't know!!!
...
you know what I think? at least I can share the first 5 ones ~
- Reply Sally_Fan
- Wa, your friends are ready to call by you, so lucky, these days, I often feel frustrated that I can't find out a friend can accompany with me, as they are very busy all the time when you call them.
- Reply RachelBear
- catnfish: I think to some extent we can only keep something with ourselves. Once a psychologist said that the mind of human can be divided into 7 layers. we canthat`s philosophical~
I know such situation is normal and it`s a process I am certain to come across in my lifetime.But it really depresses me~perhaps what I should do immediately is learning to overcome all this asap~
thx~
- Reply RachelBear
- Sally_Fan: Wa, your friends are ready to call by you, so lucky, these days, I often feel frustrated that I can't find out a friend can accompany with me, as theyhaha~maybe it`s not all the time exactly, after all, my frds also have their own life to lead excluding me. However when I call or turn to them for help, they are really most of the time~
frds needn`t be there all the time. He/she is a frd only if they are sincere and pleased to help~
