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I have graduated from university about four years till now, the campus life is so pleasant and unforgettable. But who can know that what's the following. I spent motst of the time in games as a result I didn't recieve the diploma. After shcool, I find no jobs through myself, I waste time of these years without no income or money, I cann't see my future.
Oh thanks my god, in the help of my uncle, at last I get a job recently, I will cherish it, you know I really want a stable income to raise myself and don't want to lean my parents any more.
But what will be the next? how long can I work for it? how can I get a place in the company? The problem I must faced is that my poor communication, my introvert, my less speaking and talking, it is a vital factor to kill my job as before.
I don't know why I write so many words above, I just want to write how I feel lost in my major PC, although it is hot for most company, but to me, I learn little in it, I didn't learn well in software, like programing and making website, and to the hardware, I din't learn it well either. But in the new job, I still need to lean on it, it is such a clear phenomenon that I cann't do my job well. At least I cann't get a good salary at the present level. I have thought to study my major again, but the imformation and knowledge is too wide to learn, it seems so hard to grab the useful imformation without an esoteric expert.
Study or not? Change profession or continue, I feel lost. What's the following, what's the next.
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- Reply S_Xlove
- it's kind of disoriented thing if you are inexperienced in ur professional field.but experience is being accumulated through what you do in daily work.so,focusing yourself on ur current work and adapting yourself on it may make your targets become more explict. after a period working,you rethink about your like or dislike ,which will be more helpful.
- Reply sunnyv
- Not everyone is good at studies and graduation does not always produce successful people. There are plenty of graduates out there doing menial or undesirable work. It would have been better if you could graduate and get your diploma but as I said, that is no guarantee for success. Steve Jobs of Apple Corporation also dropped out of college and never graduated. He had plenty of engineers and specialists working under him.
There is no point for you to go back and do your education all over again. It is not worth spending years just for that. All you need to do now is to prove your ability at work, gain valuable experience and work your way up. Nobody would open your file and see your diploma or qualifications because they care more about your real ability. There would be a enviable place for you in the company if you are serious. Do not let your weak social personality bother you. Not everybody is good in talking or socializing but some they still succeed. Everyone has something positive, so do you. You seem to be determined to defeat your weakness, so go ahead with confidence.
Quite strange, if you did not study well enough, how did you acquire the present reasonable standard of English? That needs hard work. English standard alone is a valuable and useful asset.
- Reply freefu55
- sunnyv: Not everyone is good at studies and graduation does not always produce successful people. There are plenty of graduates out there doing menial or undeHey dear you, what's you been up to? Hope you are happy everyday.
I wish I can get a place, a place no one could replace so that I can stay longer in the company, haha...
Wish good luck with you to all your wonderful life. You are right, all I need to do now is to prove my ability at work.
- Reply freefu55
- S_Xlove: it's kind of disoriented thing if you are inexperienced in ur professional field.but experience is being accumulated through what you do in daily workSo nice of you, so nice of you, so nice of you! Wish you happy every time.
- Reply fleaf
- First of all,you have a job now,so don't make yourself so upset,try to work hard and learn as many as you can,nobody was born to know everything.i believe you will get through this .
- Reply freefu55
- fleaf: First of all,you have a job now,so don't make yourself so upset,try to work hard and learn as many as you can,nobody was born to know everything.i belThank you, you are so nice.
- Reply 大波波
- If you feel really confused or lost,MY friend, you can try consulting some career planing professor,I know there is a website called xinjingying,you can just look around.
