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Ture friends? Not really. . 17th July
It's a bit reassuring that I finally almost finish the literature review of my dissertation.Anyway, it's just three thousand words and one-fifth of the big research project.I still need to keep working really hard and insist on , just go step by step and I believe that the day when I can get my degree would be coming soon.
In a few times ,I keep thinking about one perplexing question :is it truly difficult to deal with the relationship among people ,even with your friends? Are there any real friendships in this world?
I met a few friends in this country, unforturnately,most of them are all sensitive types,among which ,one behaves over-sensitive .I do not say it's not acceptable ,but you have to pay frequent extra attention to your vocal utterance and manners , in case they may get hurt one day because of your unconcious behaviuors .I found it's really tiring to cope with such type of friendships ,but what can I do?
Another friend of mine is not sensitive, but a self- centered one. Sometimes ,he is very helpful .Anyway, he only visits you or ring you when he feels bored or has nothing to do .Usually ,the first few words you could hear when you pick up his phone is like "Hey ,dear,I'm really bored and tired of my work and I want to hear from you......"OMG, I hear these repeated utterance for almost half a year,eventually ,I couldn't bear and said to him "Why do you ring me just when you feel bored ......"After that , I felt we gradually drift apart ,and he rings me less and less .I found that we become strangers again.
Sometimes , I'm really confused about the definition of ture friends.I felt that I‘m a loser in dealing with friendships ,even though I have the decency and sincerity in making friends.
But how should I do ?
In a few times ,I keep thinking about one perplexing question :is it truly difficult to deal with the relationship among people ,even with your friends? Are there any real friendships in this world?
I met a few friends in this country, unforturnately,most of them are all sensitive types,among which ,one behaves over-sensitive .I do not say it's not acceptable ,but you have to pay frequent extra attention to your vocal utterance and manners , in case they may get hurt one day because of your unconcious behaviuors .I found it's really tiring to cope with such type of friendships ,but what can I do?
Another friend of mine is not sensitive, but a self- centered one. Sometimes ,he is very helpful .Anyway, he only visits you or ring you when he feels bored or has nothing to do .Usually ,the first few words you could hear when you pick up his phone is like "Hey ,dear,I'm really bored and tired of my work and I want to hear from you......"OMG, I hear these repeated utterance for almost half a year,eventually ,I couldn't bear and said to him "Why do you ring me just when you feel bored ......"After that , I felt we gradually drift apart ,and he rings me less and less .I found that we become strangers again.
Sometimes , I'm really confused about the definition of ture friends.I felt that I‘m a loser in dealing with friendships ,even though I have the decency and sincerity in making friends.
But how should I do ?
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