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31th July
I wasted plenty of time these days .I spent three days in Lake District and two days in my British friend's house ,and also one day in the trip to Sunderland International Airshow in England. I felt extremly guilty as I was supposed to stay in my room and work really hard in my dissertation instead of going out for joy .Anyway, I couldn't change the current condition ,and the only effectual remedy is to concentrate on my dissertation from now on.
Sometimes ,I feel that I often contradict myself ,because what I say is not consistent with what I do.For example, I often tell myself that I need to work hard and do not watse time,but my action does not conrrespond with my own words as I keep playing all the times ,although I know the importance of my current work.
I really don't understand myself .I feel really upset .Is that because I lack motivation?But I know that I must get my masters' degree, or I would be regretful for my whole life.
Sometimes ,I feel that I often contradict myself ,because what I say is not consistent with what I do.For example, I often tell myself that I need to work hard and do not watse time,but my action does not conrrespond with my own words as I keep playing all the times ,although I know the importance of my current work.
I really don't understand myself .I feel really upset .Is that because I lack motivation?But I know that I must get my masters' degree, or I would be regretful for my whole life.
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Post comment Comment (10 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Seems your thoughts are quite outdated and unreasonable. Is it really true that if you use all your time feverishly studying would achieve good results? Is it really wise to bury yourself in books and not giving your brain a chance to unwind and relax? By the time you get down to exams or your dissertation, you would be so exhausted and tired that you won't have a clear mind and energy to tackle the task. Just a few days away and you are already so guilty? Does it really make any difference?
I have also studied for my degree in England. I worked hard but I also allowed myself sufficient leisure and recreation time. I travelled around England with fellow students to various interesting and historical places. I came back fresh and full of energy to face my studies.
You have to learn to balance your time well. Do not over exert yourself. Good luck to you.
- Reply searchmyanswer
- relax, it is easy to understand ur behavior. i think a lot of people share the same feeling with u. sometimes we spend time on what we want to do other than what we r supposed to do. it is not bad to feel upset which could impluse u, but do not feel over guilty.
my sugguestion is that first u should think it over that WAHT DO U WANT?
after that, make urself an easy aim, achive it, get urself a little confidence, and move on.
good luck.
- Reply fleaf
- If you work hard day by day but have no fun, you will feel tired someday. Then you won't want to work any more , so take it easy. It's good for you and your work.
- Reply Holdonyourdream
- heai88: don't push yourself so hard.Thanks .I will try.
- Reply Holdonyourdream
- sunnyv: Seems your thoughts are quite outdated and unreasonable. Is it really true that if you use all your time feverishly studying would achieve good resultThanks for your encouragement. I think my guilty is due to my lack of confidence in tackling a variety of tasks ,and I fear that I might fail.I need to work really hard to make up for my deficiency. But I think you're right and that I need to balance my time well and do not over exert myself .
- Reply Holdonyourdream
- fleaf: If you work hard day by day but have no fun, you will feel tired someday. Then you won't want to work any more , so take it easy. It's good for you aThanks .I will try to relax.
- Reply Holdonyourdream
- searchmyanswer: relax, it is easy to understand ur behavior. i think a lot of people share the same feeling with u. sometimes we spend time on what we want to do otheThanks for your warm encouragement my friend.I will follow what you suggested.
- Reply searchmyanswer
- Holdonyourdream: Thanks for your encouragement. I think my guilty is due to my lack of confidence in tackling a variety of tasks ,and I fear that I might fail.I need twhat do u fear? the failure itself or the some other consequences the failure brings. it is different.
i used to fear failure, and now...
I STILL DO !
life sucks.
wish u will make urself a good example for men like me
- Reply sunnyv
- Holdonyourdream: Thanks for your encouragement. I think my guilty is due to my lack of confidence in tackling a variety of tasks ,and I fear that I might fail.I need tDon't worry. According to the things you said, you are a serious and responsible person. Just work hard and don't be so hard on yourself. Good luck to you dear. Cheers.
