(2011-08-30 13:08:57)It was unusual to meet Ning at very early morning as we have time
difference. I squeezed some time from the busier day to greeting to
him. I have to admit that I have psychological complex and am
willing to give privilege to the people who are knowledgable ,
gentle, low-profile . A nice talk always relaxs me and takes my
mind away from
routine working.
Ning started the talk by joking with me that I am
using lunch as an excuse to run away from him.I
love the way of his talking, relaxed, humorous as well as joyful.I
imagined how he looks like as we have not met so far and even
though I did not ask him for a photo.
We talked about love.
There is no a pre-conceived idea in most people's mind. Love is
something that can not explained, catagorized nor reasoned.If one
can do that then It is not true love.The most important
thing is someone you enjoy spending time together
,talking for no reason.
If Love is classified into two type as love at first sight and love
gradually .Ning is more of later type.Ning grew up in rural
countryside .Though He is well educated He can see himself fall in
love for someone with little education.
We talked about color .
I prefer to white , following by black.Ning likes grey which is a
mix of white and black.while He is always in white shirt and black
pants.If color indicates a psychological hint .Then the precise way
to dissect is that Ning's upper part(where the heart is ) young
/naive and the lower part is mature.Interesting, Isn't?
Ning is a scientist. People tends to link scientist to workaholic,
stupid. while Ning seems not at all.His attraction is put down to
his education, age and hormor.
Fast pace of life keeps people from happiness. A nice talk is
acting as an additive to boring life. A nice person light up our
life .