I finally got some time to relax on weekend. I turned on TV and then lying on sofa lazily . A program of match making is catching my eye which is hosted by Anhui satellite TV channel.

 I guess many people either married or still available ever watched this entertainment program . It is more than for fun but a mirror to reflect the social mainstream of life value of modern people.

Today’s dating show is a classic version .All participants are relatively excellent who has made some prominent performance in career/study .but as a result , In the end only one guy successfully found the partner . Somehow I feel a bit pity for two guys . One is a guy who is studying Phd Program. His major research direction is on how to increase the output of rice. He looks down to earth. Responsible, persistent , humorous . He spent most of his time on the farmland and lab. He failed though He has the passionate to plant flowers or crops for his lover and willing to turning his study direction to whatever crops she likes in order to increase the outputL-. But in this reality, The probability of being moved or attracted by such brave and inspiring words is becoming smaller and smaller. No girl keep the light green to the end.

Falling in love with such guy maybe rich in spirit but not secure a wealthy life.

He shifted his career direction from a public servant to an employee of a foreign company in order to take up his favorite major-economy. He also failed in the blind dating. But his theory of  3C certificate sounds fun.

He said , as a qualified husband who must posses the certificate of 3C. It stands for commitment, Care and competent

In Marriage , Commitment is something like an invisible hand which is not in written ( We normally does not write it down .otherwise It is like a merchandise .It is not insured even we make it in the form of written ,after all .this is life ,rather than contact in business ,hehe) but rooted in mind. It direct the partners behavior.

Commitment is a prerequisites following by care .We are human and emotional animal. We have difference in character. We need the opponent sense the feeling .Then care in the life becomes a way to express our love which is going through the daily life.. Without perceived care  .The problem will prop up .

If the first 2C secure the aspects of spirit . then the third C competent is more pointing to the material side., a competent man is able to support the family and give no worries to the partner for the food, housing et .This can prevent the couples from being trapped in the situation like a Chinese saying‘贫贱夫妻百事哀’。

I can not help to applaud for his definition There is no perfect words to depict that .But this is a very interesting description. isn’t it

A couples who hold this 3C certificate ,I believe they will enjoy their life and overcome difficulties  .

Wish all enough lucky to meet his lover:)-