Boys especially of my age are facing their first difficuty after stepping out of school---housing problem. In the recent years , house price in Beijing soars as if it took a rocket. We Chinese harbor the conception that male should offer a house when considering marriage. However housing problem in beijing means you should have 20-30 million yuan. On the other hands, it means you should be born in a rich familly. For too many boys in ordinary famillies they have to fight hard their whole life for a house in beijing. For someone whose salary is just so so, maybe one whole life is not enough.
In my opinion ,it is not fair for boys. The reason why we Chinese have this conception maybe because in ancient times boys were sent to school or to farmland to learn how to offer the whole family food and clothes. While girls were thought to be at home taking care of youths and olders, they didn't need to and did really have no idea how to make money.However ,everything changes a lot today, girls are sent to school as boys ,and they are taught the same as boys.After school life they will have a job, girls are weak when competing for a job with a boy of the same ability.However,this little advantage brings an accommodation note of 20-30 million yuan at the same time.So girls and their parents should be shame asking for a house when considering marriage.It is difficult for any ordinary family no matter they have a boy or a girl.
Young men can choose to live in second tier cities if they cannot afford lifes in beijing. And the goverment should do someting to suppress the bubble economy.Life should not be so hard for young boys.