Used to think, everybody is an individual in this world,how can someone make others want to change? Even my mum can't make me want to be an early bird providing with yummy breakfast(always get up late at home).

    But since Imeet you, amazing effects have taken place on me...

    I didn’t like to get up early;I preferred to stay in bed as much as possible to get my 'beauty sleep'. I didn't like to do much cleaning;I preferred to get the cleaner to do even though she's not done a good enough job. But recently, I'm getting used to get up early in the morning and do some cleaning and tiding up the apartment. Even my friend was surprised by my change.  Even myself is amazed the effect is taking place so naturally. I just do it, joyfully and willingly...

    Maybe due to working with English for too long or because some emulative element in my character as an office operator for years, I've been acting as someone who is very aggressive and sharp. Sometimes it's necessary though, when I have to fight for my company at work and it helps with my work. But as a person in life, it's not very nice. I used to criticize about many things and like to complain. When I am in a dissension, I must argue hard till it's proved I'm right and others are wrong, sometimes it leads everybody in a bad mood.

    After meeting this not-fussy man in real, I've become more tolerant. Imagine it, when he uses an easy-going attitude to deal with things, I find it hard to criticize others too much. I used to be very strict to myself and mean to others, often say "No, this is not correct!", "No way."  While he always shows his big smile to others, often say "that's alright.", "not fussy." In comparison I realize he has such a broad mind and I was so narrow-minded. I don't want to be like that, so I must learn to improve myself.

    The more I stay with him the more I get to appreciate this world. By fate I met the right man – he's just the kind of man I like,sunny,fit,healthy,smart,decent,and full of love and joy;at the right time – when we are still young and single. Most importantly, he loves me and I'm in love with him. I haven't had felt such strong and passionate love,I love him like I had loved no one before. Is there any reason for me not to appreciate this world? NO! So I should smile as much as possible. Even though there is always unexpected things and challenges in life,if we are together,if we have love in heart and smile on face,we can sort things out. Now I understand why when people have love,he/she might become a nicer person. That's because he/she appreciates, appreciating the present that fate has brought to him/her,so they enjoy life at present.

    When you appreciate,you won't criticize too much. Now when people make mistakes,I have learnt to say "that's all right,don't worry." When the new waitress poured hot water on my back incautiously,I knew how to smile and said "no problem" instead of shouting,in this way,the atmosphere wasn't ruined and I was still in good mood. Small things like that often happen,and I've learnt to deal with them in a peaceful mood... Because,yes,you've made me wanna to be a better person.

    Life is beautiful, isn't it?