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Go away, Shness
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I know I was a shy person and I know that is terrible character for me. Because ,sometimes, shyness equals losing opportunities. Other times, shyness equals rude behavior,, For example, when you encounter some acquaintance, if you don't greet them hello, they would think you just don't want to talk to them, not you are shy.
So, compared to talking to someone face to face , I would rather texting them of leave them massages by chat tools like qq. Because, in this way I can express myself better. But, obviously, that doesn't work.
Before I meet someone, genarally, they have a really good impression on me, because I am polite and friendly in letters or emails. When they finally met me, I know, they belive I am as good as they thought before. Because I am shy.
Life is not easy, I want to change. So, everytime I stroll out of my lab, I force myself to smile. I told myself, now I am an actor, I must pretend I am happy and sunny and willing to greeting everbody I met. It kinda work.
On doing this, my mood is better than before. I am transforming myself into extrovert person step by step. I need to insist on doing this, cause I know, this can form a good habit, a good habit can form a good character and a good character lead to happily ever after.
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- Reply sddzzqq
Interesting ! But you are good enough to notice it . I think the following you would do is fighting against the weakness .
- Reply sunnyv
- You are lucky can smile nice. My friend tell me I don't know how to smile, so better don't smile and appear cool. So unfair to me haha.
- Reply Cilla
- I am not a very outgoing person either. I want to tell you is that in this world there are a lot of shy people and they manage their life well. This world is not only for outgoing people but also for the reserve ones. So, why change?
- Reply fairy0612
- I have the same problem with you. I am also very shy, I prefer more to chat on qq or short message by phone. Unlike you, when don't have to chat face to face, I can be an outgoing one, a humor and lovely one.But when see them in person, I just don't know waht to say, so I just keep silence. And I don't dare to look into people's eyes, I seldom smile at people who is far away seems looking at me. I really don't like this kind of me. I don't know how to improve
- Reply Crystal-fly
- If you think it works,just keep on.And I believe you will overcome shyness some day.In fact,I am shy too.So I lower my head when meeting people.And when classmates talk and laugh ,I usually keep silent unless with my best friends.I want to be more confident.Hope one day ,we'll be both confident.
- Reply rainecho415
- Smile is really a useful way of dealing with others, just keep smiling and being sincere when communicating with others, you can get along !
- Reply huckabee
- Judging from your avatar, you are only being conservative and introspective. The reason is that you are a perfectionist, being too critical with yourself. Anyway your diffidence will go away before long.
- Reply xrz98
- sddzzqq:ThanksInteresting ! But you are good enough to notice it . I think the following you would do is fighting against the weakness .
- Reply xrz98
- Cilla: I am not a very outgoing person either. I want to tell you is that in this world there are a lot of shy people and they manage their life well. This wMaybe there are some people who can manage their live very well. But, to me, shyness is a weakpoint.
- Reply xrz98
- fairy0612: I have the same problem with you. I am also very shy, I prefer more to chat on qq or short message by phone. Unlike you, when don't have to chat faceI think we need to defeat ourselves. That is the only way out.
- Reply xrz98
- Crystal-fly: If you think it works,just keep on.And I believe you will overcome shyness some day.In fact,I am shy too.So I lower my head when meeting people.And whThanks and good luck with you
- Reply xrz98
- rainecho415: Smile is really a useful way of dealing with others, just keep smiling and being sincere when communicating with others, you can get along !I hope so. Thank you.
