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You know that i have joined my current job one year ago, and i have learned english for 13 years. Yestoday, we(wiht my colleagues) met with our customer, from Alstom company, i did not know what his name is. We talked about the nuclear power generator. In fact, i listened, and they talked. I was shamed that i just sliped out one word: different, after i figered here and there.
I do not know the reason and i admit that i was lack of courage. Maybe i have no idea, maybe i can not express myself clearly, but i am pressed by the strange people or things, on the other word, i have a bad psychological state, and it has last for many years.
Now, i want to change, change my habitual idea, change my style, change my way of thinking, and then change my life. Unluckily, i do not not how to do, and what is you advice, my dear friend.
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Post comment Comment (15 replies)
- Reply Shirley.Lin
- i have the same trouble as you.cause lack of confidence.then ,let's change now.come on.
- Reply bluephoebe
- i'm fluent in English writing, but when comes to oral English, i became tongue-tied. lack of practice i think is the root cause. i'm good at writing, because i come here often to write, but i don't have much opportunity to speak. so don't worry, just give yourself more time.
- Reply snowflying
- my friend, sometimes what we need maybe mot the skills but a mind power, in enhlish firld, you have learned so many years,maybe your english skills better than me. but in expression field with different people, i have some own experience due to my hr's work duty.
you should know what a person target when you open your mouth,especially in you work business field. colleagues and clients have different expression way. what a person, what he/she wanna communicate with you, what 's he/she most concern thins , even what a temper in his/her expression way,ect, view with your eyes carefully, think it through your brain, don't be eager to speak out your say at public place. if you spoke a false or bad say in public meeting or party on your duty, then worse than no speaking. only myself's points, wish you improve gradually, believe yourself forever,cheer for yourself in heart forever.
- Reply crazyman168168
- Thank you ,i get your idea and advice.
- Reply crazyman168168
- Thank you, and i believe that courage of change is very important.
- Reply crazyman168168
- Yes, i want to forget my yourself, especaily so-called face, and i tell me that i just want to make friend with others or understand other or get their idea or tell them what i think. Maybe i need more time.
- Reply crazyman168168
- Shirley.Lin: i have the same trouble as you.cause lack of confidence.then ,let's change now.come on.Maybe confidence is very important, but i think the courage of change is more important.
- Reply lovingfun
- Actually learn something is one thing, and put it into practise is another things. When we use it , not just the courage, but our knowldge as the same time.
My advice is: Besides using English more, you can learn more knowldge about every area. Only when you know something that you can say something neatly.
- Reply lyrebird06
- Practice makes perfect. Listening to more and practice more, only through this way , you will become confident gradually. To some extent one is diffident due to lacking of capability.
- Reply 怡兰
- I was a bit of a coward when I had to speak Chinese, but now i try and everybody is always complimenting on my Chinese! remember that you've got nothing to lose!
- Reply crazyman168168
- lovingfun: Actually learn something is one thing, and put it into practise is another things. When we use it , not just the courage, but our knowldge as the sameThank you, i believe i am glad to hear what you said.
- Reply crazyman168168
- lyrebird06: Practice makes perfect. Listening to more and practice more, only through this way , you will become confident gradually. To some extent one is diffiI will never quit, and i will look front of my current difficult stuation. I will practise more and more, success always wait for me and i will get it.
- Reply crazyman168168
- 怡兰: I was a bit of a coward when I had to speak Chinese, but now i try and everybody is always complimenting on my Chinese! remember that you've got nothiYes, i have losed nothing, and i am sure i have learned successful story from your experience.
