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Upset monday
I have been always glad to face 'monday', it originates from my opinion: good monday is half an successful week. That seems right except today.
I am very upset, the normal job makes uncomfortable,the worry about my future lets me down. I am a man who are 'high' and 'low' sometimes, obviously, i am low now.
Let me see something about myself. Maybe it is the unvaluable job makes me inferiority or it can not make me feel self-esteem, and i can not develop my advantage, which makes me sad too.I am frigle, i can not stand little beat of outside or from others.
Here the question, what should i do? I believe my sadness could not help to change my state anymore. It must change,i can not receive the destinatin, i want to master my future in my hand.
Come on,Change!Change!Change!
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- Reply 丫丫不哭
- try to focus on other things instead of your minds.
i hope when sun rise, you will become better.
- Reply Laura_Lucky
- you need to ask you self what you like to do for a job if like you said the current job could not give you self esteem full. then search in you heart ... I have the same question before .now I change to do the things I like not my old job ... I am a different person now ... passionate and more confident healthy person ,,,
go ahead to search inside you
- Reply snowflying
- dear friend, when i read your this blog, the whole Monday's workday has passed by now. even though i feel your this upset mood not due to your Monday actually, at least not only your Monday. if only a Monday's upset, usually due to the weekend's relaxed continuing, not so fastly to adapt, can't focus our energy to power. but yours upset not like so, i feel. wath's happening on earth? let you so upset and so low mood at the beginning workday????
if havn't any sudden things happening, only your usual common workday make you so bad mood, i feel your qrouble come from your heart and your current career status. i remembered you have some doubt in your current job, and asked for me some questions in my space. i don't know whether your current status some change since then, why so unsatisfied with your job? what reason make you boring???? wrong major, little interesting, lower salary, weak development, bad colleagues relationship, hopeless position,troublesome boss???? or all of these aspects???
- Reply crazyman168168
- snowflying: dear friend, when i read your this blog, the whole Monday's workday has passed by now. even though i feel your this upset mood not due to your MondayFirstly, thank you,you are a careful guy. Yes, Monday is not My upset emotion's reason, It always exists.
Secondly, you attempt to help me to find the real reason, and you are a good guider. I have thought about it seriously,and i also want to share with you.My major is okay, but no intersit in my job, salary is normal, not low, weak development is the most important, clloeagues relationship is better than others, i think hopeless position is the same meaning as the weak development, at last boss is okay.
That is my true situation, and the reason why i want to share with my blog friends is that i want to warn myself time flies quickly,i must prepare for my next choose carefully, and then i want to dump my sorrow to you and want a help.
Now, my dear friend, tell me that is not the end of the world is just not enough, would you have some better idea?
- Reply snowflying
- crazyman168168: Firstly, thank you,you are a careful guy. Yes, Monday is not My upset emotion's reason, It always exists.heheeee, i guess right indeed. your trouble come from your heart, not the Monday at all.
Secondly, you attempt to help me to fi
as my viewpoint, from you telling, your career status is kind of ok, why you so upset still?? you see, major is ok, salary is ok, boss is ok, colleagues is ok. your so-called "trouble" is only your helpless position and your weak develpment, plus your low interesting. that's not the vital at all, i think. because any fresh clerks in any company all locate a lower position at the start. don't you wanna to promote to a higher position now?? though i don't know your personal information details, but as my experience for many years hr, to a young fresh clerk, it's not enough to have only a eager mood and a high eyes. you need judge your real current power in your company. whether you have owned enough ability to push a higher position now? whether you have enough preparation on your duty now? if these base can't bne solved well, even though you quit your current job for another new one, the same question still are there firmly. so think yourr job carefully fully from all aspects. sometimes quiting an old jos is easy, but solving old questions is not easy. maybe my words some sharp , maybe not suitable to you, if some false, beg your parden. only wish your career path smooth,and gain your career happiness.
- Reply crazyman168168
- snowflying: heheeee, i guess right indeed. your trouble come from your heart, not the Monday at all.Firstly, Thank you for your kind heart and time. I will give more imformation to answer questions.
as my viewpoint, from you telling, your career status is kin
The first information i must let you know is that my current job is my first formal one, which means i have some informal jobs,like some foreign companies,reserch institution, etc, the reaon why i choose my current job at last is that it belongs to energy industry, and everybody konws the importance of energy for our life in general, and you know what, i followed the trend and made a relative right choice. The most important point i want to you know that i did not make an easy decison at that moment, i ask my friends, my parents and my girlfirend, and I took consideration thier opinion.
The second imformation i must share with you is that i am easy to get along with others, so my good boss, my good colleagues and some others 'ok' are not problem for me. The true meaning of hopeless position is that i can not get higher position, but i can not learn more useful knowledge at my young stage, that means i worry about my future, not my current salary. 'hopeless position' has another meaning: my current department is not important in company, you know, the younger has an willing to become important and valueable man, my current state could not help me to achive that, which makes me sad.
The next one which confuses me is that money is very important for me now, and important too in the future,i have to earn more money to change my life level, my famliy life and give more help to my friends.It is very unconfortable when your famliy or friends in trouble but you can not do anything.
At last i want to share with you is my true feeling, you know that, it is easy to have a dream and it is great to pursuit dream, i want to do great job, and i want to do difficult job. Maybe i have not prepared enough, i do not know how to say, maybe i could succeed too in my current job but i would have regrets. In fact, i am confused, could you give me more valueable advice?
You know that, i am waiting for you.
- Reply crazyman168168
- 丫丫不哭: try to focus on other things instead of your minds.You have so-kind heart, but your avatar would make others misunderstand you.
i hope when sun rise, you will become better.
- Reply crazyman168168
- Poon: ask ourself,what we really need ? but sometimes ,it 's hard to answer .^_^I always ask my self, i hope i could thought it clearly enough as soon as possible.
- Reply snowflying
- crazyman168168: Firstly, Thank you for your kind heart and time. I will give more imformation to answer questions.wow, my dear friend. seems your troubles indeed in your heart. wait, i 'll write a blog for you guy. have a nice night now.
The first information i must let you know is t
- Reply yexuan1921
- Come on, my friend
