Love is a course of dish, one has to prepare for it carefully. When one preparing for a dish, he has to think about what kind of dish he is going to cook, and what kind of ingredient he needs, love likewise. When one falls in love with someone, he may have various standards on his lover. First of all, when he chooses his lover he must know clearly about his sex orientation.Secondly, admit it or not, when one chooses his lover he does has his requirement on his lover, though there saying goes that love has nothing with appearance, wealth,status,age. That is why when Prince Charls married to Diana and Yang Zhenling married to Wengfan can be explosive news, for few people would fall in love with a man of nobody.These requirements on lovers are equal to ingredient in a dish. A good dish has good ingredient, a good lover must fit his hunter's taste.

         Love is a course of dish, only those who know how to cook, can they own a good dish.A good dish,when cooked,it needs proper oil,salt,soy,sugar and more importantly it needs fire. Love if in the course of its development,fares likewise.Love can not be a good dish only when it endures enough twister and turn,sweetness and bitterness.There saying goes that "no cross, no crown", it also goes for love.

Love is a course of dish, when it is cooked, one needs to taste the dish to make sure what else it needs to add,to add more salt or more cooking wine? It is impossible for one to be a chief cook when he first learns to how to cook.Thus when one encounters love, it is quite possible for him that he does not know how to deal with it.Actually,when one cooking love, he needs to add his romance and passion. Otherwise, this dish would be tasteless.

       Love is course of dish, now this dish is well cooked, it is time to enjoy it .Then when referring to enjoying love, it goes that at the touch of love everyone becomes a poet., thus thousands of songs and poems are in celebration of love, and thousands of people are in good expectation to love. For example, Xi Mu rong ,a famous poet, wrote that

    May Buddha let us meet
    in my most beautiful hours,
    I have prayed for it
    for five hundred years.
    Buddha made me a tree
    by the path you may take,
    In full blossoms I’m waiting in the sun
    every flower carrying my previous hope.

    Sometimes one may feel that one main course is not enough, he may want to eat some side dishes.Maybe that is the reason why many great artists may have one more lovers, just like Xu Zhimo. Though he had married to Lu Xiaoman, he still had fascination to Lin Huiyin. However one should be careful with too many side dishes,for it harms your stomach.Extra lovers,to some degree, it does nothing good to ones' life,for pleasure coming from extra lover is ephemeral, pain is inevitable.For instance Xu finally died for air crash on the way to Lin Huiyin's architecture speech.Thus when one enjoying love, it is advisable for him not to abuse of love.

    Love is a course of dish.May every one enjoy a good dish.