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My boyfriend's salary is less than half of my salary. He always ask my help to pay his rent. When we go out to eat, I have to pay. He is not cheating my money. He is hardworking but he cannot find a better job. We always argue because of money. He is unhappy too because he feel bad spending my money. My friends laugh at me because I am using my money to keep my boyfriend. I don't choose a boyfriend by how much money he have, but he should earn enough money to support a family. We almost breakup now. Should we continue?
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- Reply DaiMelon
- Hmmm, I do agree with what you said, "don't choose a bf by how rich he is" as long as you are happy, but now, you are not happy, this is the problem...
- Reply jaylinxuxun
- It is really hard to judge from your couple of words as an outsider. Maybe I could say it depends on how love you're. Money is important, people said that there is nothing availble without money even money is not everything. It is so sad in reality that there are many love stories are fail because of short of money issue. Otherwise, there is hard to earn that affulent of moeny when people are at their youngese time. I once read the story about Ann Lee , he is a famous film maker now. but , who knows that he once stayed at home for several years without work. And his wife is a PHD and an univercity proffessor who is together with him and supportting with him. But, peopel are different, situations may be different too. anyway, hope you have a happyness life.
- Reply sunnyv
- Why should his income decide your relationship with him? Income or salary can increase in future but intelligence is inborn. Would you love him if he has high income but is a useless person? There are plenty of rich old businessman out there, so why not choose one from there? The most important is whether he is a weak person? If not, nobody can say he is poor because someday, he may find a high pay job, then it will be his turn to say you are poor. You may lose your job anytime too.
Just set aside his salary question. Think carefully whether you can spend the rest of your life with this person? Do you really love him? Are you willing to live with him in good or bad times? If you can accept this person, then his salary is not important. If you keep looking for somebody with a salary higher than yours then you may miss the chance of marriage and your age will pass you by and your attraction would be lost. Don't expect a perfect husband because there is no such thing. Every man has some defect so if he has more good than bad, then he is the one for you.
- Reply samanthe
- I have to say that money is important for us, but it's not the most imfortant thing. you must clearly know you are really fond of him or not? which personalities of him attract your attention ? he is the right man who you're looking for? do you want to live with him in your upcoming life ? if your answer is yes, leave money alone, as long as we live, we can have more chances to earn much more moey; if your answer is no, you should leave him asap. just take this matter into serious consideration, as it's a serious thing. Just follow your heart, don't be infulenced by money.
- Reply teadrinking
- Now that he is your boyfriend, you are seeing some of his good which is more than income. Though money is important, you have to judge that what the most important thing is.
Take a look at the relationship you have gone through to see if you two are really deserved to own each other. A beakup is easy, while to manage the relation is hard. Thus I think that you can wait for him if you really want to be with him.
- Reply Tange
- hehe , do not judge other's relationship ....
DaiMelon: Hmmm, I do agree with what you said, "don't choose a bf by how rich he is" as long as you are happy, but now, you are not happy, this is the ...
love is selfish .... no need to be agreed by everybody ; if it feel good when they stay togather
- Reply Candy.liu
- There is no doubt that money is very very important thing in this society. But we should realize that money is something, not everything. Don't let money decide your love or marriage. Look it back and think it over, why you decide to begin the relationship with him？
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- Your boyfriend is lucky to have a girl friend like you.May he love you forever!
