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My boss invite me to his home for Dinner. Should I go?
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My boss invite me to his house for dinner next Sunday. He is a middle age man living alone. He invite me alone. I suggest go to restaurant, but he say his home better. I suggest invite another girl also but he did not agree, just smile. He also ask me to wear the dress he likes. I feel not safe go alone but I afraid he angry if I don't go.
Some details about my boss. I am just a usual employee without any personal connection with boss. I have no personal interest about him. I don't accept this type man because he the oldest in the office. May be have family too. He sometimes give me work like contact other companies. He always ask many things about me. I try not answer. May be he think I don't know anything like a stupid girl. What to do? Should I go?
Some details about my boss. I am just a usual employee without any personal connection with boss. I have no personal interest about him. I don't accept this type man because he the oldest in the office. May be have family too. He sometimes give me work like contact other companies. He always ask many things about me. I try not answer. May be he think I don't know anything like a stupid girl. What to do? Should I go?
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- Reply ada23
- hi, girl i think you should tell us more details about your boss and you two interaction in company to analyse the situation.
- Reply possible
- 1.Go
2.Bring some Electric batons,i think you could fight a 40 years old man
3.After that case,may i invite you for a dinner??
- Reply Catherine陈
- Definitely not . I don't think it is right for the boss to invite you alone or ask you to wear what he likes . You are not his daughter or girlfirend. keep yourself safe from danger ! You can't imagine what you will drink or eat at his home.After all , you yourself can't trust him now. 不爱就不要暧昧。
- Reply jaylinxuxun
- support Catherine陈
Catherine陈: Definitely not . I don't think it is right for the boss to invite you alone or ask you to wear what he likes . You are not his daughter or girlfirend. ...
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- Why not refuse him politely? Do you think it is fair and sensible to accept his invitation, eh?
- Reply ada23
possible: 1.Go
2.Bring some Electric batons,i think you could fight a 40 years old man
3.After that case,may i invite you for a dinner??
，you make me laugh
- Reply sunnyv
- OK. I tell you what you can do. i know it is hard for you to refuse his invitation. Anybody can see that your boss has something bad on his mind.
Yes, you can go to the dinner at his home, but do the following;
* Arrange for your boyfriend to call you every ten minutes when you are in his home.
* Let your boss know that your boyfriend is waiting for you downstairs to take you home after dinner.
* Wear the clothes he dislikes most and make sure you look bad.
- Reply possible
- I hope haiena will not not bring the electic baton for our dating.
ada23:
，you make me laugh
- Reply sunnyv
- Yeah, give that guy a nice buzz.........zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz if he dare try anything bad.
possible: 1.Go
2.Bring some Electric batons,i think you could fight a 40 years old man
3.After that case,may i invite you for a dinner??
- Reply ada23
- if she brings, it will definitely an unforgettable experience to you.
possible: I hope haiena will not not bring the electic baton for our dating.
- Reply ada23
- You`d better tell the boss that you don`t intend to accept his inivation. Business is business but private life is another thing.
- Reply carolyayayaya
- I guess you have already realized that he might have an evil motive, so, refusing his requirement decisively is the best choice. Never be afraid of losing your job because of this. If he really fires you or deliberately makes things difficult for you, it just proves his bad quality. Then, you would not regret leaving the company.
- Reply Haiena
- Thank you all of you. I don't want to go to his dinner but if I don't go, I will have trouble later. Today, I went to the dinner with two girls. He was not happy the two girls. After dinner he ask me to see his home. In the bedroom, he tried to do something bad but I went out quickly. I pretend nothing happen, smile say thank you for dinner and went away. I go back to work Monday will know the result.
- Reply sod5211314
- Are you sure that your boss is single? if not, I suggest you not accepte his invitation.
