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when i stepped out of the office ,all of a suddent ,my heart was sinking to bottom .my chest was blocked by a huge rock .Mr.wang 's indifferent response lingered around my ear .It was hard for me to swallow my anger to him.either ,I wasn't able to take immediately action to opposite to him .I just resented alone .
this was all of the pictures of my situation .I was ignored by colleagues ,hurted by indirect judgments ,scolded by my single wasted words. Even like this ,I didn't give up my attempts to make them accept me .I tried to amuse everyone .In the office ,there always existed a rule that the leader dominate all .you must pay attention to your words and be careful to talk with your leader .you must be prone to saving your leader's face in everywhere .this is alive strategy in office when you were in disadantage position. of course ,I came up with it by my own opinions . all of this made me crazy.
I hope i can play deliberately and cope with relationship more flexibly.but i turn myself down.my colleagues ' reaction to me made me knowing that it is a profound course that I should learn more . I cann't meet the leader's desires .Even i sitted there doing nothing was wrong ,let alone i did something .there was always a basket of dissatisfactions awaiting for me .
I just felt tired of all of this . A unfriendly hints would be given through a dialogue between other two colleagues .The indirect words always hurted me a lot .how awful it is ! I really want to escape from this situation .
How long will I fight for this depressing situation ?
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- Reply caveman
- difficulty is everywhere in the real life ....
but you must got a good attitude
wish have a happy time
- Reply ringcao
- We can accept that not everthing satisfy us, we can adjust us to circumstances.But we should persist in our own principles.
If you can adjust, and you think you should, go ahead.If your principles do not apply in the circumstances, move on.
- Reply S_Xlove
- caveman: difficulty is everywhere in the real life ....everyday i should balance my emotion from the depression to normal .
but you must got a good attitude
wish have a happy time
I think I already have a good attitude toward the bad situation . i need friends ' mental support.
Thank you ,friend. I feel better after writing and communicating here .
- Reply S_Xlove
- ringcao: We can accept that not everthing satisfy us, we can adjust us to circumstances.But we should persist in our own principles.thanks for your kind suggestion .i try to adjust myself to this circumstances. maybe there is no wrong or right .everyone just should know the office alive rule .
If you can adjust, and you
- Reply Kevin_z
- If you did something inappropriate, don't make the same mistake next time. If you did nothing wrong, then be strong in your own heart. Sometimes it's not your fault, they may blaming you for their unfounded anger. You are not born to please everyone, firstly you should please yourself, then take care of other people's feelings. If you can't stand it anymore, if you could afford it, quit!
- Reply lchh
- You should be yourself,what was thought to save your leaders' face might not be what they really wanted.
- Reply S_Xlove
- Kevin_z: If you did something inappropriate, don't make the same mistake next time. If you did nothing wrong, then be strong in your own heart. Sometimes it's
ai....i don't know what's going on here .something is worthless to mention .but there is a kind of indifference ,mocking and comparation between people.
I just can be myself .keep slience and endure them.
Till the beginning of next year ,hope there will be a new start for me .
- Reply S_Xlove
- lchh: You should be yourself,what was thought to save your leaders' face might not be what they really wanted.This is north ,it is totally different from south.
you can't just consentrate on work solely.the relationship with leaders is very important. everywhere has capable people. but the limited position only need a few people.so ,if you have no good relationship with leaders, maybe there will many troubles occured in your work. should be careful.
- Reply 如主文
- Maybe you should read 24 histories. They’re all about the relationship, I think five thousand years of experience on relationship is worth to learn.
- Reply lchh
- S_Xlove: This is north ,it is totally different from south.
you can't just consentrate on work solely.the relationship with leaders is very important. everywheI will take it.
- Reply S_Xlove
- 如主文: Maybe you should read 24 histories. They’re all about the relationship, I think five thousand years of experience on relationship is worth to learn.[Reading is a good way to release some bad emotions. thank you for your kind suggestion. It's right time for me to read more for strengthening my willings and keeping my peaceful mind .
thank you friend!
- Reply 如主文
- S_Xlove: Reading is a good way to release some bad emotions. thank you for your kind suggestion. It's right time for me to read more for strengthening my williI always want to be a salesman of 24.
- Reply S_Xlove
- 如主文:haha ,,you are really a "bookworm" ,and not only read many books ,but also willing to recommend a good book to friend .how kind you are !I always want to be a salesman of 24.
Have a nice weekend to you !
