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Life's full of adverisities, and it's doomed almost equally hard for every single human being. We have to learn the truth, accept it and finally we are on the way to conquer it. By thoroughly acquiring this fantastic skill, a little girl knows to wipe her tears away and bring a bright smile back on her soft rosy face.
Somehow this is by all means a hard road. It's a road that most of us have spent ages working on but failing to find, and have had to walk on a different one which seems "ok and secure". We rely on our parents' protective wings, like little chickens, we are safe and carefree there. We lean on our partners, and we'd like to be comforted by them, therefore we think they are indispensable in our lives. We complain, sometimes even to a stranger, for whatever trivial reasons, because subconciuosly we want them to help us to assume our responsibilities.
Humans may be born vulnerable, but we grow up when love is all around. This love, for everyone's sake, is the real straw that helps us to strall on the happy land.
This love can be learnt through variuos of pathways. Somehow the foundation is we need to get it when we were babies. Those who didn't get enough attention and love from their parents feel very hard to love others, for the love here, I definitely mean the real love. Consequently we are like a teapot full of tasty tea so that we can pour in those tea cups.
Apart from it, I also believe that even though some didn't get enough love from their families, they are still able to learn the meaning of true love, although it's much more difficult in this case here.
The best way of showing your love for others is not saying it all the time, which doesn't mean anything. The most effective and accurate alternative is to spend time with the one you love. The art of attention simply finds us the answer itself. A gardener spends most of his days in his garden, taking care of his plants. A baker spends most of her times in the bakery and her body will be full of the smell of bread fresh out of the oven. We listen and response carefully to the one we care while he/she's talking. We don't need him/her to repay back someday, for we are in love.
What I have been reflectiong upon recently is that I'm a bit confused if I am on the right track? It's just hard to say that I am as a matter of fact concerning of this issue, for sometimes when I'm self examing, I don't think I do enough for the one I care. Every now and then the feeling of walking across the line way too much into his territory makes my determination sheer. Or this fading of the sense of falling in love can easily lay its finger on my weak nerves.
I'm still grateful that I have the chance to find the right path, and I believe that eventually, no matter how bad I will get injured, I will be there. And I know that I'm a lot closer to it than those who aren't even brave enough to give it a go by using millions of excuses of being far from it.
Shouldn't I have one more cup of green tea and after which I'd knuckle down to my daily work and end this day dreaming as soon as possible? :)
Melissa, pouring her teapot
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- Reply niniyingzi
- wow ,Your handwriting is too small.my eyes can't bear ,so I don't read fully
- Reply woods
- Kind of difficult for me to understand that subtlety
.But it seems that you're making a pretty good decision.
- Reply catnfish
- niniyingzi: wow ,Your handwriting is too small.my eyes can't bear ,so I don't read fullyI'll try to fix it sorry to hear that~ ~
- Reply catnfish
- woods: Kind of difficult for me to understand that subtletythanks for always being supporting :) You're the best~What I have talked about above is a bit abstract no worries ~.But it seems that you're making a pretty good decision.
No thanks~
- Reply SmilingAngel
- If you love him, you could never given him up whomever he is.
- Reply catnfish
- SmilingAngel: If you love him, you could never given him up whomever he is.or wherever he is~ thanks for reminding me this :)
- Reply catnfish
- chinaabel: follow your heart is the effective way to deal with everything:)I'd do that :) thanks for your kind suggestion!~
Totally agree~ let it be, the life knows where to take us to:)
- Reply Robin-Wang
- Your english is very good. I guess english must be your favorite subject in the school.
- Reply catnfish
- Robin-Wang: Your english is very good. I guess english must be your favorite subject in the school.hmmm thanks for saying that~ You're right, English was one of my favourite subjects back in school. :)
- Reply touringchina
- a little girl knows to wipe her tears away and bring a bright smile back on her soft rosy face.You are the exact girl.Pretty good.
- Reply catnfish
- touringchina: a little girl knows to wipe her tears away and bring a bright smile back on her soft rosy face.You are the exact girl.Pretty good.ha~ If not I believe I'll be there :)~
Thnx~
- Reply molycan
- wow...that's wonderful .your view is good..I think that you was a sensible girl...wish you!!!!
- Reply catnfish
- molycan: wow...that's wonderful .your view is good..I think that you was a sensible girl...wish you!!!!Thanks for agreeing with me :)~ I also hope that we can share more later here on this website~
- Reply COLMAN
- smile is the best sword to cut away the mountain of pain,the better action is that when you look at yourself in the mirror every morning ,please smile on yourself
- Reply catnfish
- COLMAN: smile is the best sword to cut away the mountain of pain,the better action is that when you look at yourself in the mirror every morning ,please smileI get you! To be confident and positive~ nice nice :)
- Reply viva
- niniyingzi: wow ,Your handwriting is too small.my eyes can't bear ,so I don't read fullyeither you or I need to get the eyes examined.
- Reply yyjjxx12345
- is it writen by yourself, if so, you must very love your parents,and the people you get along with
