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Am I on the right track?
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Life's full of adverisities, and it's doomed almost equally hard for every single human being. We have to learn the truth, accept it and finally we are on the way to conquer it. By thoroughly acquiring this fantastic skill, a little girl knows to wipe her tears away and bring a bright smile back on her soft rosy face.
Somehow this is by all means a hard road. It's a road that most of us have spent ages working on but failing to find, and have had to walk on a different one which seems "ok and secure". We rely on our parents' protective wings, like little chickens, we are safe and carefree there. We lean on our partners, and we'd like to be comforted by them, therefore we think they are indispensable in our lives. We complain, sometimes even to a stranger, for whatever trivial reasons, because subconciuosly we want them to help us to assume our responsibilities.
Humans may be born vulnerable, but we grow up when love is all around. This love, for everyone's sake, is the real straw that helps us to strall on the happy land.
This love can be learnt through variuos of pathways. Somehow the foundation is we need to get it when we were babies. Those who didn't get enough attention and love from their parents feel very hard to love others, for the love here, I definitely mean the real love. Consequently we are like a teapot full of tasty tea so that we can pour in those tea cups.
Apart from it, I also believe that even though some didn't get enough love from their families, they are still able to learn the meaning of true love, although it's much more difficult in this case here.
The best way of showing your love for others is not saying it all the time, which doesn't mean anything. The most effective and accurate alternative is to spend time with the one you love. The art of attention simply finds us the answer itself. A gardener spends most of his days in his garden, taking care of his plants. A baker spends most of her times in the bakery and her body will be full of the smell of bread fresh out of the oven. We listen and response carefully to the one we care while he/she's talking. We don't need him/her to repay back someday, for we are in love.
What I have been reflectiong upon recently is that I'm a bit confused if I am on the right track? It's just hard to say that I am as a matter of fact concerning of this issue, for sometimes when I'm self examing, I don't think I do enough for the one I care. Every now and then the feeling of walking across the line way too much into his territory makes my determination sheer. Or this fading of the sense of falling in love can easily lay its finger on my weak nerves.
I'm still grateful that I have the chance to find the right path, and I believe that eventually, no matter how bad I will get injured, I will be there. And I know that I'm a lot closer to it than those who aren't even brave enough to give it a go by using millions of excuses of being far from it.
Shouldn't I have one more cup of green tea and after which I'd knuckle down to my daily work and end this day dreaming as soon as possible? :)
Melissa, pouring her teapot
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- Reply MarkLee
- U R on the right track? YOU MUST find someone attractive who makes you crazy...then document your feelings.
- Reply catnfish
- MarkLee: U R on the right track? YOU MUST find someone attractive who makes you crazy...then document your feelings.I'm over that crush already...~
hmmm~ maybe I'm just heading to real love now ~ hopefully ha~
Well there're also other kinds of love
- Reply catnfish
- iPeter: good English , good essay ,deserve to be called talented girl ! my example !
thanks for your comments, and hope we'll have more to talk about later :)
- Reply catnfish
- MarkLee: you have already on the right track...wish you good luck... thanks for encouraging me! :) I'll try my best! The same to you!~
- Reply shawle
- "Am I on the right track?"
This is also the question I asked myself again and again.
Long time no see,it looks like that all of us are striving for our ideal lives.
May good luck attend you as well as myself.
- Reply Fionahere
- i always feel so comfortable to read ur essays. long time no see, too huh. i bet you can figure out the right track for youself in terms of ur relationship.~~~ happy Mid-autumn Festival and National Day
- Reply catnfish
- shawle: "Am I on the right track?"Thanks for your lovely comments!~ Hey I know that you've been busy with IELTS thing, ha~ welcome come back for a coffee break here anytime you want!~ :)~
This is also the question I asked myself again and again.
Long time no see,it looks like that all of us are striv
- Reply catnfish
- Fionahere: i always feel so comfortable to read ur essays. long time no see, too huh. i bet you can figure out the right track for youself in terms of ur relatioReading your words also makes me warm lovely! you too, a very happy National holiday! How's it going lately?~ Having good kids in your class?~
- Reply Sally_Fan
- I always admire those person can write things by their heart, and now you are the one I like.
- Reply longyuelan
- you have a certain understand for love
- Reply catnfish
- Sally_Fan: I always admire those person can write things by their heart, and now you are the one I like.thanks very much lovely, Haven't seen you for a while,and hope everthing goes really well there! :)
- Reply catnfish
- longyuelan: you have a certain understand for love~I take your comments a lovely accompliment :)
Thanks very much and have a great day there!
- Reply Herny1111
- Hurry up,Melissa,Face the world bravely,I will support you forever...
You are intelligent girl,Any hard difficulties can't block off our road.
- Reply catnfish
- Herny1111: Hurry up,Melissa,Face the world bravely,I will support you forever...ha~ Thanks! I believe so :)~
You are intelligent girl,Any hard difficulties can't block off our road.
- Reply catnfish
- yuhui: Good writing!confused girl,wish you happy!thanks!~ ^___^ I'm not confused anymore. May you call me lucky girl later?~:P
