Cold outside, and I walked around my neighourhood, thinking something. Recently, I am puzzled by a question:"What is so-called a real man?" or "What a real man should be like?" Should  the real man must be loyal to his or her friend, never tell lies, always insist on his or her own faith, help those in danger in time, lust for nothing except for necessary, equiped with rich knowledge, has humrous talking, and has sympathy for those who have bad lucks...?  I guess, it maybe. But I think the real man should at least have some quarlities below:

一.Kind-hearted

     What is the main difference between  man and animals, I guess, that is we have all kind of emotions, and we care ourselves and others, we know that we are the social animals, that bond between of us makes the society solid, the world better.

二.Keep Unique 

     Each person is unique and different, that composed the variety of people. That makes who we are insead of being others. But this doesn't mean we are perfect. Only when we knowing the fact  we are unique but need to perfect that can make us to improve ourselves, try to make us seemed perfect.

三. Be ready to face every challenge

     Life likes the sea, sometimes tide, sometimes low, and sometimes calm. To live means to solve all kinds of difficulties. We should have the courage to deal with them, and welcome all kind of puzzles, be ready to face every challenge, then we can more mature, more charming.

四. Having high moral standard.

     They are highly needed for us to cultivate a moral deeds that be faith to one's own belief, be loyal to friend and family, be nice to people, be open-minded to new things, be honest to oneself as well as to others .Just like a motto says:'quietude promotes learning ，frugality cultivates virtue " ,moral deeds can really help us in some way.

     A real man can never make in one day, it need time and patience, need us using our body and soul to achieve it.