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Ten tendencies that our Chinese more likely do

Hot 3591 views. 2015-3-13 15:43 |Individual Classification:Mood

      When we meet people and contact with them, we often see that  some people are easily to make some or all mistakes as I say below:

一.      Speak ill of others behind their back.  

We have a motto like this:” Anyone may talk about others , as same time they may be talked about behind themselves.”  Too often when we eat at a restaurant or walk on the street, we will hear some people talk about others just behind their back or their on spot.

二.      Bully others because one has power or powerful social connections

    Too often we may see some people bully others with words that they may teach somebody a lesson or do something to him or her. Why they do so, just because they think that they know some important person, even they bully others, the people have been bullied will say nothing, for they fear that they will be punished by important person.

三.      Act like a snob

    Some of person will judge others by their clothing to decide if they will have something in the society. And they think that, people who dressing  nicely may have a good statue in the society, and flatter them; for those who dressing poorly, they just look down upon them, and leave them alone.

四.      Impute all faults and wrongs on others

    Some people will impute all faults and wrongs on others when they makes mistakes, instead of learning from their mistakes.

五.      Stir up troubles

     When misfortunes fall upon on some people, we may see some other people come here not for help, but stir up troubles or make things worse,  even take advantages from those who endure bad lucks.

六.      Do things as extremist

     Once upon some person make something, some of people will learn from them as a example, but when they make mistakes, they will treat them as a enemy.

七.      Talk as other say

      Some of people will say something as others’ say, they have no their own opinion or too lazy to think.

八.      Polish apple

    Some people are easily to flatter other people who have high standard in social in order to gain something, just like polishing the apples, in fact , apples needn’t polish.

九.      Deceive oneself as well as others, break promise easily

When some person do something, they will say something and make a promise, but for the sake of higher profits, they may deceive themselves and break their promise, just like to steal a bell while use his or her hand to hide their ears, hope that others will like him or her cannot hear the sound of the bell.

.       Act shamelessly

     When some people want to get something, they will try all means to flatter the person who in charge, but once they get it, they will forget the help of some certain person, even say ill words toward them in order to get more profits or benefits , even replace the position  of the man who ever help them. All in all, they will reach their goal by all means, act shamelessly.

Post comment Comment (6 replies)

Reply ada23 2015-3-13 17:19
you show the dark sides of people nature. Honestly it freqnently happen, why it continue happening cau the people see the behalf behind the phenomenon, so it magnify the bad circle extending to the society. We can not alter the society trend but we can not being the one.
Reply teadrinking 2015-3-13 20:23
To be grateful to be alive and to be thankfull to people, then form a good attitude to life as a cultivated person to shoulder the responsiblity as what a real man is supposed to do. Whatever, things are gonna be all right.

Have a good weekend.
Reply lovingfun 2015-3-14 14:34
ada23: you show the dark sides of people nature. Honestly it freqnently happen, why it continue happening cau the people see the behalf behind the phenomenon ...
Each of us may find one or few mistakes, even if we don't mean to do that. To error is man, to perfect is the God.
Making mistakes account nothing, but used to do that really is a matter.
Reply lovingfun 2015-3-14 14:35
teadrinking: To be grateful to be alive and to be thankfull to people, then form a good attitude to life as a cultivated person to shoulder the responsiblity as wh ...
Haha. You are right.
Wish u have a good weekend , too.
Reply sunnyv 2015-3-14 15:45
   Haha... Those attitudes seems infectious because I noticed that I myself also do those crazy things once in a while. I talk about my customers behind their backs because they want to buy products at crazy low prices, bargaining etc. I am also talking louder on the phone in public places because everyone else is doing that, but when I go overseas people frown on me for talking loud. I  would have to watch my habits to keep a respectable image and attitude.
Reply lovingfun 2015-3-16 18:51
sunnyv:    Haha... Those attitudes seems infectious because I noticed that I myself also do those crazy things once in a while. I talk about my customers  ...
Yeah, indeed. It is very common that whe most people do , I will do so, too. But, it is this idea that kill our imagination and creativity.
We are the walking man, we are not saint, so it is natural that we make all kinds of mistakes.  Actually mistakes is a way of learning, but we should pick them up from time to time and correct them in time.
In order to leave a quarlity life, we should try our best to make us imperfect, or at least make us making less mistakes.

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