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I often ask myself these question: Why people work, why they try their best to earn more? In life , there are lots of things that worth shedding sweat, why we set us in this a certain way, and never have the courage to have a change;Why when the things which we owned vanished that we notice they are important for us? If when we live alone, there are not so much duties, still do we feel very pressure, or just stay there doing nothing;Most people lead a lifestyle like a mouse in a wheel, the faster he ran, the wheel turns more quickly, but he can never get out from the wheel till he deads, while some people lead a desirable life, what is the difference, is it really like the ideas of "Doomed Fate", some people are born in that way;People often say when I am rich, I will......, but when they are rich, they find surprisingly that they even have not get enough time to do things which they want to do. Why? There are still lots of "whys", I would not like say.
As I feel that life is just there, when we exprience it, we will definately have lots of differeces though they seems that all alike. How do we react toward it will make great changes. Yes, indeed. We are common people , we lead a common life, sometimes we may feel we are hard to live, we even cannot earn enough money to meet our minimal needs, sometimes we feel we are on the top of the world, though this may seem meaningless towards most people. These real moments and feelings creat us, and make it possibly happen.
We needn't do so-called greatness, we just enjoy every moments of our life with those we care, love deadly, no matter it seems great or not. Have the courage to face all that the life offer to us, never give up in all circumstances. Always have the enthusiams towards life, toward things we do. Dare shoulder the duties we need do. Then, do we still care who we are, what kind of person we want to be? Enjoy our life with an easy heart, work hard in order to fullfill our dreams, share our moments with those we care . Never say die to all difficulties. Use our all heart and soul to take all that life offers to us.
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- Reply sunnyv
- I agree with you 100%. In fact, I feel this article is talking about me and it is helpful for me to review my thoughts and expectations. Thanks buddy. Yes, why we keep chasing things like the mice on a mouse wheel chasing unreachable dreams and never ending expectations.
It is so tiring and hard trying to stay on the top of everyone. Even though I am self sufficient and have enough resources for my living, I still worry about changes which could affect me and take away all the things I have. Something just happens unexpectedly and we are blown off and start worrying. So what is the use of self-sufficiency when we cannot even know when to stop and what is enough. That happens time and again and we cannot control it. That explains why rich people are still unhappy because when they reach the top then they see another top, keep climbing up until he falls painfully down. There is really no end to all these chasing so we all better be happy with what we have and limit our expectations realistically.
- Reply Catherine陈
- I always think I am a lucky dog . I am grateful for what I have . I am happy with my life and my family . But at the same time ,I never dare to waste my time carelessly . I am afraid others or the younger ones will beat me . I am always wondering what is the best attitude towards life . "dream about tomorrow ,but live for today "."Never too old to learn " "accept what life offers us " They are all right . So I tell myself to do what I should do and I want to do .It's useless to worry about our future or our children's future too much . But I still have to ask myself how to make myself wise enough to arrange my own life well and how to avoid regretting for my current deeds . Are working hard and never stopping learning really enough ?
- Reply lovingfun
- In some extent, we have the same expriences, and then we may lead some same ideas toward the outside world.
sunnyv: I agree with you 100%. In fact, I feel this article is talking about me and it is helpful for me to review my thoughts and expectations. Thanks buddy. ...
As I always say, take all when the life may offer to us, the react really make a difference.
- Reply lovingfun
- Life is full of uncertains, we cannot tell what will happen in future. So the more we prepare, we may react quickly when we are in some certain situations. Our life itself is full of challeges.
Catherine陈: I always think I am a lucky dog . I am grateful for what I have . I am happy with my life and my family . But at the same time ,I never dare to waste ...
All we can do is hope for the best, and prepare for the worst. Never indulge ourselves. When we are wanting some unreal things, just say "Nos" to ourselves.Continous fighting is all we need, but with some cautious.
- Reply Catherine陈
- I like reading your words .They are so impressive and meaningful that I want to keep them deep in my mind . Thanks!
lovingfun: Life is full of uncertains, we cannot tell what will happen in future. So the more we prepare, we may react quickly when we are in some certain situat ...
- Reply lovingfun
- You really flattered me on that. The fact lie in there which we all know, I just write it down in order to remind myself.
Catherine陈: I like reading your words .They are so impressive and meaningful that I want to keep them deep in my mind . Thanks!
Thanks for your kind words, thanks a lot.
