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you see what you have in your heart
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A psychologist was doing an ink experiment. He showed some pictures to the first comer and asked what did he see in the picture one by one. At most time he replied "A ghost". Then this psychologist said to him" My friend, maybe you should have a good rest, i can see you are experiencing an anxiety time, don't push youself too hard! " Then there came a second man, this psychologist showed a picture to him and asked what did he see in the picture, he answered "sex", then another picture was showed to him and same question was raised, he answered "sex", then the third picture and question appeared, he all replyed"sex". This psychologist said to him seriously "I'm sorry, buddy, i'm afraid you have some sexual problems. You care about sex too much!"
One day, Su Xiaomei saw her brother Su Shi was very exciting coming from outside. She asked him"Brother, why are you so happy today?" Su Shi replyed proudly" Because i played a trick on Fo Yin(A monk, Su's good friend) just now" "What happend on earth?" "Just now i went boating with Fo Xin, i asked him what i looked like in his eyes, he said i looked like a Buddha, when i asked him what he looked like in my eyes, i said he looked like a pile of cow muck. How funny it is!" Then Su Xiaomei sneered at Su Shi " You see something because you have something in your heart. Fo Yin say you look like a buddha, becuase there is a buddha in his heart, and you say he looks like a pile of shit, think about it what you have in your heart." After hearing this, Su Shi felt embarrassed.
Yes, just think about it, if you think other people and your life and the whole society is quite bad and awful, maybe you focus on the negative things too much, try to distract your attention to some beautiful and pleasant things. There are always some good ways to work it out. And you can tell a lot from one's words and you can tell what kind of person he is.
Haha, yes, we can't judge people just by what he looks like , but put emphasis on what he says.
Hmm, yes, if we are in a happy mood, all we see is a happy world; if we are sad, we see things are totally in a mess.