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Love Isn’t Cultivation
The guy working beside me lost his love and kept complaining his girlfriend to me. He said he treated her heart and soul and why she was so cruel to break up with him. At first, I just told myself to be calm and pay no attention to his words.
After a dinner in a new restaurant tonight, he even stopped eating and kept complaining without stop. I couldn’t bear to listen to his complaint and burst out, “Could you please stop for a little while? Love isn’t cultivation. On cultivation, as long as you take care of it diligently, you’ll get harvest. Love is different. You probably get nothing even though you take care of it heart and soul. If you don’t understand this, you’ll better do nothing related with love.”
There are so many people treating love as goods. If he pays one Yuan, he must have love of one Yuan; if he pays ten Yuan, he must have love of ten Yuan; if the love he has is less than one Yuan or ten Yuan, he’ll complain without end.
When you love a person heart and soul, if he/she still treats you as nothing, you’d better prefer to leave, no need to complain, for yourself and the person you loved.
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- Reply snowflying
- something has no reason,love and dislove
- Reply lyrebird06
- Love is so difficult to find. According to your principle many married people don't attain to real love.
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- I believe your colleague understands what you said , but it's really hard for him to accept the fact .After all, affections are beyond reason.Time will calms that poor fellow down.
- Reply Jessico
- I feel the same. Love is really different from other objects. Sometimes it's really very subtle. In my view, no matter being together or leave finally, we all need to take positive attitude rather than scolding or complaining. Everything will pass eventually
- Reply lijuanandrea
- i think he should ask himelf wether he truely love her girl friend or not . if he did, why he had so many things to complain. he should know that if love with heart and soul, he shouldn't expect a return
- Reply lijuanandrea
- he might ask too much to her girl friend
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- snowflying: something has no reason,love and disloveNo need to complain, which will bring one nothing.
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- lyrebird06: Love is so difficult to find. According to your principle many married people don't attain to real love.Love is originally a hard thing to say clearly. What I mean is that as long as you love a person heart and soul without result, just leave peacefully. No need to abuse and insult him/her instead to seek Psychological balance, after all, he/she doesn’t have the obligation to repay you with love.
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- 2010jj: What you say is reasonable.Rejected by others doesn’t mean you’re inferior, even Madame Curie was rejected by others before. Just ignore it and start a new life.
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- IMNONARCISSUS: I believe your colleague understands what you said , but it's really hard for him to accept the fact .After all, affections are beyond reason.Time wilI can understand him. Several years of devotion to his girlfriend suddenly became vain, surely miserable and angry, so what could he do? Only have to ignore it and start his new life. Don’t be too stupid to complain and revenge himself on her.
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- sunnyv: "To the world she may be one person...but to him, she is the world.The world is lost, but he is still alive, has to seek new world. Columbus can discover new continent, surely he can find new girlfriend.
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- loly90: True love is priceless!heheLove is a thing between two people. Now the other people quits, there is no love between them now. True love is priceless, but it has to involve two people. It’s impossible to clap with one hand.
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- Jessico: I feel the same. Love is really different from other objects. Sometimes it's really very subtle. In my view, no matter being together or leave finallyYeah, you’re right. Time can sweep everything, even including life, no need to say love, however, you still need to seek it endlessly. You can’t imagine what the world without love will look alike.
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- lijuanandrea: i think he should ask himelf wether he truely love her girl friend or not . if he did, why he had so many things to complain. he should know that if lTo be honest, love without expecting return is really rare. There’re two people who did it. One is Sydney Carton in A Tale of Two Cities, the other is You Tangzhi in Semi-god and Semi-devil. But both of them are fictional.
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- lijuanandrea: he might ask too much to her girl friendI myself don't know where my love is, I don't have time and energy to care about things between them now.
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- 如主文: I can understand him. Several years of devotion to his girlfriend suddenly became vain, surely miserable and angry, so what could he do? Only have to
- Reply lijuanandrea
- that's my idea of love.maybe just fiction as you said
