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If You’re Helpless, Please Do This

453 views. 2012-7-16 19:59 |

My friend Ping’s wife Tao probably decided to abandon him. No matter what he did, she was dissatisfied. In a word, she thought Ping was useless and couldn’t provide her a comfortable and easy life. She wanted to find this kind of life from other guys.

Ping was always afraid of his wife leaving him and took really good care of her, however, useless. After all, his wife was polite and said she wasn’t good enough for him and he could find someone better. This kind of words is really heavier than a slap on the face.

So what should Ping do? He had a little daughter to take care of and faced the risk of divorce. He had no higher education and special skill, in a word, too dark a future. Washing his face with tears? No use, who cares? If you time to wash your face with tears, you’d better use it to sharpen yourself. At least you should try hard to live better, no matter how, please don’t leave regret in your future.

You don’t have to spend time thinking how miserable you’re, which is really useless. You don’t have to spend time thinking how happy other people are, which is really useless. You can’t be a millionaire, you can’t be an expert, at least you can find a job to support yourself, during leisure, also can learn a skill.

When you have a skill to support yourself, you can find someone to have a happy family. Other things aren’t important as long as you love each other. Don’t think lowly of yourself. What about an ant? It’s tiny and humble. But you never see an ant doesn’t struggle hard. Elephant has the happiness of elephant. Ant has the happiness of ant. No need to envy others’ happiness to ignore your own happiness.

As long as you struggle hard, it’s never too late. What’s more, better late than never. My friend, ping, now do you know what you should do? If I were you, I should do as above.

Post comment Comment (14 replies)

Reply XueHaiWuYa 2012-7-16 23:26
Hope your friend will learn from your wonderful positive attitude and practical advice!
Reply Soar 2012-7-16 23:43
Ants always envy the happiness of elephants but ants don't know elephants envy their happiness. Actually sometimes we forget happiness is always in our hands. Never too late to learn. Better late than never. Hope all guys hold your happiness by your hardworking hands.
Reply 逍遥飞吧 2012-7-17 07:45
what write is my thoughts and suggestions for your friends . if his wife is that kind of woman , let her go . because she would not bring you happiness .
Reply 如主文 2012-7-17 08:09
逍遥飞吧: what write is my thoughts and suggestions for your friends . if his wife is that kind of woman , let her go . because she would not bring you happines
Probably it's easy for us outsider to say. Now that he is married and has a lovely daughter, of course he wants to keep his family integrated. I don't know, everyone has his own book to read...
Reply 逍遥飞吧 2012-7-17 08:18
如主文: Probably it's easy for us outsider to say. Now that he is married and has a lovely daughter, of course he wants to keep his family integrated. I don't
got it .
Reply 如主文 2012-7-17 08:51
逍遥飞吧: got it .
Reply loly90 2012-7-17 09:26
People are too realistic now. Maybe this woman is not really love her husband. Since disaster has happened, the man should face it and be strong, and try his best to do better in the future, this is no use crying over the spilt milk.
Reply 如主文 2012-7-17 18:09
loly90: People are too realistic now. Maybe this woman is not really love her husband. Since disaster has happened, the man should face it and be strong, and
Yeah, one should try his best to live, because he doesn't know when his time is up, only trying to be regretless.
Reply colin0126 2012-7-17 20:38
No need to envy others’ happiness to ignore your own happiness.
I like this sentence. And as your said,no one was born perfect,don't compare your weakness with other's strongest.You have your own happiness.
Reply 如主文 2012-7-17 21:58
colin0126: No need to envy others’ happiness to ignore your own happiness.
I like this sentence. And as your said,no one was born perfect,don't compare your we
Yeah, you can't be right more.
Reply samscri 2012-7-22 13:48
I don't get it. Why so many people get married, divorced, remarried and repeat the circle...Isn't it a waste of time and feelings?
Reply 如主文 2012-7-23 09:17
samscri: I don't get it. Why so many people get married, divorced, remarried and repeat the circle...Isn't it a waste of time and feelings?
Probably they're just enjoying the process instead of result. hehe
Reply danyduan 2012-8-12 19:32
Your article is positive and also encourages me.I guess your friend will understand what you wrote  and make a brighr future strongly.Best wishes!
Reply 如主文 2012-8-13 11:08
danyduan: Your article is positive and also encourages me.I guess your friend will understand what you wrote  and make a brighr future strongly.Best wishes!
Thanks. I will try my best.

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