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Who can define LOVE?
The first thing always has its definite significance,like the first my blog here,sure at least it is my point.So finally I decide write some with this topic-LOVE. Wow,seem a perpetual topic but never and believe forever nobody can define it,at least in my viewpoint it is. To combine with the situation I am in now, so pour out some about it here,as you know,I believe everyone has his or her own secrets,right? Which is not so convenient to talk to your friends even close friends or some familiar ones,only can keep it in your deep heart,whatever it is sweet or bitter though sometimes it is sweetbitter so makes you confused to speak out,I donot know if it is can be counted as a LOVE,in my dictionary until now,seem have not the ability to distinguish which can be a LOVE,after all it exists with so plenty of types-----first sight love,friend goes to lovers,no feeling or can be described as hate with each other to like even to love,cyber love etc.
Mmm,maybe to tell and to know and to ask yourself if it is love itself is not so important,the keypoint is if you feel it is.Yes,FEEL,something makes you feel happy,smile,think of,care about,imagine,these actions and behaviors even imagination and crazy mind can be shows of LOVE. Yep,you cannot help to block your feeling 'cause nobody can control your thoughts,just like SENSE AND SENSIBILITY,this is also the reason that makes you distressed even upset. When relationship up to a level which makes you feel great you may recall the beginning--some details and expect the future,being in a great amazing feeling,but life always isnot satisfy you,like sweet dreams always will be interruptted by awful things,i.e.a coming nightmare. OMG,what I am writing and want to talk? Mmmm,seem what a mess! Yes,nightmare come beyond my imagination,which really let me down for a long while and with blue mood. Even now apparently looks okay,but still with some doubts in deep heart there--is asking should accpet or not? What a HARD choice really it is! For the time being leave the different country,language,race alone,but age is really a big problem which is also the most puzzled thing to me,whyyyyyyy? Affection should be controlled effectly and consciously or let it goes with its routine? Emotion is a subtle thing,really canot tell which action is correct or wrong easily,not to mention should move on or stop.
Ah,a boring thing to share! Sometimes we always meet someone or something which change us more or less on some aspects,only have the differeces are if you aware of them or not. We met,learnt,experienced,even learnt a lesson,anyway at last we should appreciate them in spite of with goods and bads for teaching us what is growing up from them and this is the most valuable.Life is just like this,maybe from a macroscopical view to treat things will get a different gain even better effect. Like is short,life should be simple. It is truly nice to meet you,D.
Good night,sleep tight and sweet dreams always,everyone.
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- Reply bluephoebe
- Certainly it is not boring. How could such a subject like Love ever be boring? There were time that I truly believe Love Conquers All. Like you said---the feelings. How can I describe them? Toes curling, palms sweating, breath quicken simply because someone existed? Like his simple presence could crowd everything else, everyone else out. Certainly such feelings could make everything possible.
Now I’m not that sure. Such feeling, no matter how power it is, would eventually die out. And that is not the worst, the worst is, when reality check, it is so vulnerable. Age gap matters, space matters, money matters. So what is love? Really, I don’t know the answer.
And nice to meet you here.
- Reply Haiena
- Love is not definable, only your heart has the answer.
Love is too powerful to be defined or controlled.
Love is like a ghost, everyone talks about it. Few see it. Only those in love knows what it is like.
Everyone is right in defining love, because love is unique to each of us, and brings a different experience to each.
I would try to define love as;
Love is in the hands of the one who holds your heart.
Different people define love in different ways. For some it's passion, for others love means loyalty, compassion, giving, fondness on fire.
Love is stronger than steel, yet breaks like glass.
Love can easily be confused with lust, desire and extreme fondness.
- Reply Tange
- Haiena: Love is not definable, only your heart has the answer.well explaination on love
Love is too pwerful to be defined or controlled.
Love is like a ghost, everyone talks about it,
- Reply graceyang613
- bluephoebe: Certainly it is not boring. How could such a subject like Love ever be boring? There were time that I truly believe Love Conquers All. Like you said--
Yes,nobody can define love and nobody has the right to judge which is true love only the lovers who falling in love can exactly say or toughly say what love he or she is expereinecing now,after all the love to everyone is so different. So to me truly I donot know how to do to deal with this,I donot want to think of it more,just let it happen by nature maybe good,let the time tell.
- Reply graceyang613
- Haiena: Love is not definable, only your heart has the answer.
Love is too powerful to be defined or controlled.
Love is like a ghost, everyone talks about itAh ha,wow,seemly a beautiful poetry it is and really can be. Mmmm,time will tell everything,hope it is and believe each one have some different viewpoints on love,haha.
- Reply graceyang613
- Tange: well explaination on love
yes,classic words to lable love,this everlasting topic.
- Reply 异物
- Haiena: Love is not definable, only your heart has the answer.Well explained.
Love is too powerful to be defined or controlled.
Love is like a ghost, everyone talks about it
