I am a primary school teacher  and at a embarrassing age , i have great marriage bad pressure from my family and society,the working environment is stenosis,except colleagues,we have little chance to know others ,happen  to meet him at a casual gathering,at our first meeting ,we can talk speculative,i think he is very friendly ,funny ,polite  and childishness ,after a long time ,we haven't seen each other .......until one day ,i am on the bus and throw my eyes outside ,surprise to find that's him,we look at each other,then we start our love...........

  

     Now it is time to talk about marriage,we have to face so many realities ,parents views ,background,interpersonal relationship,house,money,what's worse,although we are work at  the same small city ,jiangxi province ,but he is from hainan province ,my dad set his face against our relation,what should i do?

    i am thinking all the time ,it make me restless,i was in bad mood this afternoon ,i decided to give up our relation ,so i cried all the time ,i find it is too hard for us to do that ,without my family's support and his family's help(because his family is so far),i also afraid the hard life .........how do i choose ?