I have a little rough situation with my sister . we have differen personality . love different things . love different clothings . we are so different . but it is fate we were born in the same family .. about nearly decades passed . our different never remind me it is a promble . but this year taught me a lot to shift my attention to our differences . she is just older than me just by one year . in years we aruge a lot . fight a lot .. shut down to each other's phone when we at the heat of the moment .. we don't want to give in to each other .. just insist one side is wrong . .but this year she got sick from womb disease . avoid an operation for luck .. I can't control  my temper during she waiting for her result . I realized it is allready a promble we fight as a habit . I couldn't kick the habit in a jiffty . so I really know how this effect our relationship we all ingored before ..

    I avoid talk too much When she talked with me . even on phone . I need some times think twice . not endded up in aruging . we should act like grown-ups  . it is serious . it is time to change .

    in Chinese says , bad things bring good ones . they bond together . . if we have bad one , if we use wise to doing it . we gain more ., we learn more .. I finally thinking as a grown-up . thank  my sister .too many siblings fight but never have chance to change . mistreat or mistreated . but I am glad I have realize . respect to each others . first time we avoid aruge acting like best friends . sharing secrets we don't like slip to friends .  it feels really great , give me feeling sky- high ..  I hope since ever we are best friends  . the best one ..

   she is my angle let myself seeing through so much important things in life ... let me know I am not perfect . not too spoiled ..