Now ,the end of this year (the year of rabbit) is coming soon , this year is my benmingnian .

      In China there is a saying "There will be more important things happened in one's benmingnian ", it's ture for me i think , in this year i have experienced some very important things for me ,involves family ,work ,emotions and so on.

     Part 1--family :

     In June of this year ,my mother was checked out that had got a seriously ill--brain tumor ,when i got the imformation i felt anxious and unacceptable ,i didn't know what to do,also i wasn't in her side because my work palce was faraway from my hometown .Fortunately , my father was in her side and could look after her ,after several comunication by phone we decided to send her to Shanghai Huashan Hospital to  have a big operation ,because only few hospitals in China can do such a high-risk operation ,also i pleased a long holiday and went to Shanghai to take care of her.The operation lasted a full nine hours ,when we were all waiting outside worriedly and fearfully ,i felt that nine hours were so long that just like several days. At last, when the doctor came out and told us that the operation was very succesful,we all loosed a deep breath ,there was an other good news for us that the brain tumor was  benign . After the operation, my mother recovered very well in our care .  During that time ,i found that my parents were more inclined to listen to my opinion and let me to decide , not like before ,  i felt there was a reponsibility for me to  my family ,to my parents , i needed to take it ,because i had grown up ,now it's my turn to take care of them but not oppsite .  Maybe that experience had helped me grow up and made me have a  more strong sense of responsibility.

   Part 2 --work

    For my work ,there was also an important change had hapened to me ,even since this Agust i had been delivering resumes on line ,and aslo i had taken part in some interviews to Shanghai ,even go to Shenzhen once .To joinin diferent companies' interview ,i had to make dieferent preparation , know diferent enterprise culture and talke with diferent people ,certainly , the more interview i joined in the more benifit i got ,it had expanded my horizon ,i had learnt more things i didn't know before .That status lasted more than two monthes ,  i didn't get my satisfactory job yet. Later my previous company was going to  promote me and give me a raise when my boss want me left ,but at the same time my current company  invited me ,there was a chioce i had to make , each offered certain advantages , the choice was not so easy , at last i chose the current company ,in a foreign company i could improve my English and expand my horizon ,and there were some of my friends all in Shanghai, on weekend we could play together ,it's a very pleaseant thing . Now i like  my new job ,like my new surroundings , and i will try my best to do it best ,in the meantime i will improve my english .