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some mixed feelings since graduation
Since graduation I always wanna to write something. But when i was realy meant to do that i am alway have no idea where should i start from
During the past 23 years, i depend on my parents to live and they try their best to provide the comfortable life for me. Last year i graduated from university and i thought finally they can have a rest and no need to live that hard any more.i was even naive in assuming that i can make a living for them now.But the reality gave me a strong punch and i found that something are harder than you have imaged or not as beauty as you thougt.
After graduation,the most important thing for us is to find a satisfied job.But what kind of job can be defined as a satisfied job? Maybe the answer fiffers from people to people. some would like to choice the things that they like even if they do not making a lot of money. Natuarrly, some would like to choice the jobs that do not hate too much as long as they can be well-paid. What should i choice and what can i choice really annoys me very much and finally i choice a job just because i am tired of the process of finding jobs. Almost took part in interviews everyday but without any satisfying results.
Maybe i made a wrong decision.but since i have made a decision i must try my best to accept all and just work hard for it. But once you have doubt about the moral quality of your boss,you may need to think about that carefully and finally i choice to go.
I think it is not that hard to make a living for ourselves but really not that easy to make a living for a family especially those who want to own a house of themselves.
The future is just there waiting for you no matter you really wanna it or not.the presentis the only time that you can make some changes, maybe we shoud just make the best of present.
Maybe you feel that you are getting far and far away from your dreams,even though you should not feel disappointed all the time,because life is not just about dreams it about more than dreams.
just stop here(anymistakes welcome to point it our and give somt advice
Post comment Comment (18 replies)
- Reply Wing.Jusam
- Everything will be better.Although we will suffer from failure and disappointment and hardship in our life,just love it.Sunshine always comes after the wind and rain , no one can be successful with the casual .
- Reply xixifighting
- Wing.Jusam: Everything will be better.Although we will suffer from failure and disappointment and hardship in our life,just love it.Sunshine always comes after thYeah,tks
- Reply sammyyvone
- have the same thoughts with you for long time . i am not the best one but not the worst one in the life around me , even then , i can't make my dream come true at present .
- Reply xixifighting
- sammyyvone: have the same thoughts with you for long time . i am not the best one but not the worst one in the life around me , even then , i can't make my dreamI am just wrote something that happend before now i can manage them very well. You must believe that you will achieve what you want and best wishes for you。。。
- Reply xixifighting
- Xiaxia: Ye.Solutions are far more than difficulties.but there are always ways between solutions and difficulities。。。
- Reply pheidippides
- Yeah ,sometimes i was lack of a little direction. Do not see the direction of forwarding, while do not grasp present. But recently i insist on doing a thing,that is ok ,i am gradually looking for my goal.
- Reply The_Void
- Don’t be too sad. You are not in worse luck than any other people just because you don't like your job.
Few people love their jobs, most people work for living. Don't be fooled when you watch TV and hear those model workers talking about how much they love their jobs, because a wise husband never speaks ill of his wife if he can’t afford to divorce.
You and your job are just like a married couple. If you can’t find an ideal job, try to treat the one you have well.
If you have a job now, you should try your best in doing it and with time you will find it more and more comfortable to do.
- Reply snowflying
- dear girl, your this feeling is normal, not only you have, actually many new clerks steped from campus all have such a feelings, the big difference between college and society make you guys sink more and more rethink and review constantly, and from the reviewing to society, adjust you guy's way to improve, that's claaed growing up , just a change or transfer from a simple pure to a mature real complex social person, sorry, please understand "complex" with a right active attitude. society is society after all. we must face, must jump this step, must go forward on society, nobody can refuse growing, nobody can kive in his/her pure simple imagination. sometimes we must keep our nature, but we must live a adopting life way for ourselves. keep your hope, keep an active doing on society, fill yourself with all kind of skills or ability which you can reach through yourself's hard efforts, that's base of all,though it's not so important for a girl to striving a wonderful social position. but at least, as a modern girl, we should feed ourselves or contribute our families, certainly family is the future to you. so youhave stepped into the society, just do as yourself's wanting, your work, bf, ability, relationships, study, ect, all these things should be delt well gradually. good luck on your way,girl.
- Reply samscri
- Job is never hard to get...It matters whether you are having it for yourself or your offspring...
- Reply xixifighting
- samscri: Job is never hard to get...It matters whether you are having it for yourself or your offspring...Yeah,jobs are never hard bo get。。。
- Reply xixifighting
- possible: congratulation for your gradution~but sometimes i really miss the time when we were students
- Reply xixifighting
- snowflying: dear girl, your this feeling is normal, not only you have, actually many new clerks steped from campus all have such a feelings, the big difference bereally thank you for giving me some advice and saying those words to me, i know what i should do and i will try my best to be a better myself
- Reply xixifighting
- The_Void: Don’t be too sad. You are not in worse luck than any other people just because you don't like your job.Yean,i know, i just fell that there is really a close relationship between work and life, they influence each other so much
Few people love their jobs, most people work
- Reply xixifighting
- pheidippides: Yeah ,sometimes i was lack of a little direction. Do not see the direction of forwarding, while do not grasp present. But recently i insist on doing aYeah, the right direction is important
- Reply xixifighting
- baoling: it is hard to a student who just graduated from unversity.Year,but no matter how hard it maybe,all will past
