Qingming Festvial is a sad day for me, when the day is coming, i often dream my best relatives in the other world. Maybe it is me that i am such a sentiment girl. I really miss my father and grandma at that moment. But what i only can do is taking care of the members of my family, there are nothing to do except that. I never see them and embrace them again like the moment they are healthy and alive around me.

      Now i often said to my friends you should cherish the time with your parents when they complain their parents with blurr or preciseness. Since we don't know some day they will leave us to another world, and we can do nothing even if we indeed regret the act to them.

     I saw a calculation formula to calculate the days with your parents in their rest life. Most people like 80s 90s are far away from my parents and work at different cities. The time staying with their parents is becoming shorter and shorter as they growing up. If one has twenty days to company with his parents one year, so presuming his parents has fifty years in the world., then there are one thousand days to stay with them. It is less three years to live with them if we converse the year for the unit . How short the time is!

At the same time now with the holiday coming, news about qingming is sounded everywhere. There are two news catch my eyes. One is the expensive graveyard fee. Another is someone don't come back home to waliyambi,looking for a stranger to visit his family's grave. There are no doubt that I don't agree with the deeds they are doing in this day. One hand, I think the government should take some measurement to control the dear graveyard fee. Or just like what some old people said, they dare not to die duing to the expensive graveyard fee. How dreariness it is！On the other hand, I think we should put the feeling missing the best relatives into our deep-hearted instead of asking sb to do that replace us.

         Hehe… It is some opinions I have this day.