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The quarrel with my friends.
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Today i have a quarrel with my friend, the reasons is just the leaving date of the company .
For me , i just came back to the office this afternoon, and got the salary from the manager after work for almost one hour. The colleague who lived with me together do not want to me leave that early, and i also yesterday promised her that i will be back today and play the card with her in the evening. So i decided to leave the next day evening , that is tomorrow evening, but my friend got angry with me about the decision, she said the cold words to me, make my heart very cold till now , and i know that maybe she is so lonely and she wants me to moved to the rent room soon, and do not waste any time on this company.But she has forgotten one thing, that i have worked there for almost one year, and the colleague who lived together with me just like a friends ...I think i need to spend some time play with her and tell what i am thinking about the work and give us some time for the leave......
That is really the bad state i am now in, i do not mean to hurt them ,but i need to hurt one of them ,since we can not just gain without lose....
I do not know what to say now, and just want to calm down and have a long talk with my friend,but it seems that she does not mean to say one word to me, maybe she is still in the angry state....Do not know what to do...
The office is just me...none...I think i should have calm down when i saw what my friends saying .....when i saw the message she sent to me ....May be she was too busy...or maybe she is just saying the angry words,,,...besides,my heart is with some cold actually....
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Post comment Comment (10 replies)
- Reply danyduan
- Don't think too much any more.Maybe your colleague will understand you when someday she/he leave the company.Of course it is much better if she/he is willing to talk with you and know your opinion.
- Reply sunnyv
- Jealousy in relationships is actually quite normal. A little jealousy is one way of showing how much care about each other. On the other hand, however, too much jealousy signifies a lack of trust and may break a happy friendship. Forgive is the best solution.
- Reply liuli
- dear mei,take it easy,quarrels between frineds are usual things.maybe days later,everything will be ok...
- Reply snowflying
- hehehe... i smiled when read your writing, because i remembered my campus again. always some samll troubles among girls friendship. but i have jus written a say in Liuli's blog comment, share with you: friend is treasure, treasure friends forever..
- Reply mei2011
- danyduan: Don't think too much any more.Maybe your colleague will understand you when someday she/he leave the company.Of course it is much better if she/he isYeah,communication is really very important ....Thank you..
- Reply mei2011
- sunnyv: Jealousy in relationships is actually quite normal. A little jealousy is one way of showing how much care about each other. On the other hand, howeverYeah , forgive is the best solution, now my friend and i are as normal...It is really very difficult to know why we will quarrel on some little things..
- Reply mei2011
- liuli: dear mei,take it easy,quarrels between frineds are usual things.maybe days later,everything will be ok...
Yeah, the quarrel between friends is really normal...,maybe i am not in the good state also my friend the same with me ,..so we quarreled ...but now we are as normal.
- Reply mei2011
- snowflying: hehehe... i smiled when read your writing, because i remembered my campus again. always some samll troubles among girls friendship. but i have jus wrifriend is treasure, treasure friends forever..I will remember this sentence ,...
- Reply liuli
- mei2011:glad to hear that.Yeah, the quarrel between friends is really normal...,maybe i am not in the good state also my friend the same with me ,..so we quarreled ...bu
- Reply sunnyv
- mei2011: Yeah , forgive is the best solution, now my friend and i are as normal...It is really very difficult to know why we will quarrel on some little thingsSeems your friend feels a little secure so she would have big reactions to trivial things. Let her have her way if you can and avoid agitating her.
