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Tail of July(七月尾声)
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Today is July 30th, the end of July, and the tail of July!
Tomorrow is the last day of the July, this month, I seems a little busy with my life, my mother's birthday, My birthday,hot rent, and practice for the driver license,and busy work these few days~
Yesterday I went through my 27th birthday, it is busy busy and busy ,and it is so normal with no birthday cake ,no friends's accompanied with me, and even a quarrel with my roommates~ it is a chaos day, but it is very impressive.Now I am 27 years old, and now I am still single~
Yeah, 27 years old is a strange ages,and with much confuse also, maybe it is because my mind, my thinking way and my experiences are so simple, when I think and do some thing, it also likes that I am not that mature as my friends, I am still with simple thinking way and still lack some experience.
But I am still changing by my life experiences. Still much life experiences can let a person become more mature.
I have been thinking those days, What I should do to change the situations now I am in? Both about the work and about the life~
I am thinking about it always, and many ideas comes to my mind~ But It seems I am not doing as what I am thinking about!
Just like I am planning to study at evening for two hours for my exams~But the reality is that I never studied!
Just like I am planning to practice for the driver license more, But the reality is that I do not!
Just like I am planning to work more hard, and send more emails when I am looking for the customers, But i did not!
Just like I am planning to record my daily work summary, But I did not!
Just like I am planning to make a summary about my client those two years ,and do some research for the clients, but I did not1
Just like~~~
Then What Should I do! How to prevent from those things occur again? What I should do ?
To say some thing, and to promise some things, it is very easy,but how to make the promise , the plannings to be reality, It is difficult! That is Action speaks louder than words!
Now I need to warn myself again and again, When you said something, when you plan some thing, Please do as you said!If not you are just a Talking machine,and if you are still like this, nobody will trust you, and you will lose your trust in your self one day in future!
I think myself is also very strange!
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- Reply xingyue
- Happy birthday and hope you escape from the chaos and mess situation soon. Same as you, I am not mature among peers, and I am inexperienced in daily life. Fortunately, my families and friends are quite considerate and kind. They worry I would be bullied by someone one day. I just say, "Don’t worry, I have a brave soul, and ‘fools have fortune’”. Your all words well express my thoughts and feelings, and we are alike: so many things are waiting to do, but little things really are done. I think you can do your plans one by one, and do these things in a short time would make one crazy. A good habit must spend much time to develop, and be more patient! At fact, I am not so patient sometimes, and theory is easy to understand while practice is difficult. Good luck to you.
- Reply mei2011
xingyue: Happy birthday and hope you escape from the chaos and mess situation soon. Same as you, I am not mature among peers, and I am inexperienced in daily l ...
Thank you~ I think just is as what you said a good habit must spend much time to develop~ I will try as you said!Things will be better ,no matter for you and me~
- Reply samanthe
- I saw one sentence before:when I was young,happiness was simple;now that I've grown up, simplicity is happiness. Don't make you so stressful. Reading your words remind me of my previous state,making plans and push myself to accomplished them, but our time and energy is limited, we will feel very guilty if those plans can not be finalized perfectly.
Hard-working is very nice quality for all of us, and keeping in a relaxed mood is also very necessary. In my opinion, In a simple mind is the best attitude for me to face the life.
- Reply sunnyv
- You have a good attitude to life. Do you know why roses have thorns?
xingyue: Happy birthday and hope you escape from the chaos and mess situation soon. Same as you, I am not mature among peers, and I am inexperienced in daily l ...
It is because people think they can pick the roses anytime they like, so
the roses are protected with thorns. The more mature the rose, the more
sharp the thorns. Your parents should be relieved, you know your way and won't get lost.
- Reply sunnyv
- Sigh ~~~ Isn't that what happens to everybody? Everyone seems to have a long list of things undone and it looks like those things would never be finished. Dear, the world has changed, things seems simplified with technology but in fact it is making our lives complicated and burdensome. They have created technology which make things move faster and more efficient, but our brains are still the same and we all have trouble catching up.
Take one example. Previously, we only need to get up, tidy up, eat something and start work. Now we have to watch the news, otherwise we won't have talking topics. We just call up friends to talk and now we have to type messages on the phone and check the response constantly. Previously, we don't have so many messages coming in and we don't have to respond so quickly. The customers now have more information than us about products because it is easy for them to find websites and we have a hard time finding and giving them information they could not find elsewhere. Things are just so pressurized that we don't have time to breath and unwind.
Take it easy and just like what Xingyue said, do it step by step. One by one. Don't worry if you can't finish them all because you won't be able to finish all those things quick anyway.
- Reply someiyosino
- So it is with me that it is so normal with no birthday cake,I'm 21 years over .I hardly celebrate my birthday .Since I start my University life,my birthday is just on the day when I take part in my final examination.As for other questions you have said,don't put too much pressure on yourself.Don't worry,maybe you can try to have a trip to relax yourself.Hope that works.
- Reply xingyue
- Yeah, I am optimistic at most time, and I have my thorns but I prefer to be protected when stay with families. I agree that I am strong and my mind is not easy to be lost.
sunnyv: You have a good attitude to life. Do you know why roses have thorns?
It is because people think they can pick the roses anytime they like, so
the rose ...
- Reply Emmaml
- Happy birthday to your mother and you. Yes , July seems to leave us, By My Side, so many things happened too, I experienced a lot of failure in this july ,at the same time,I told myslf, life is plain .we seem to live the same life everyday.we have experienced all the difficulties life gives us,and we dont have complaints.maybe you are tried,but if you enjoy your common life,you can become the happiest people in the world.on the other hand, i think the ordinary is a blessness，happiness is in your heart.every ordinary people is the hero of life.life is not easy,come for yourself!we are all fighting!
- Reply ivyren
- You are better than you think. everybody hope they can perform perfectly.But the reality is we hardly keep up with our plan. what you need to do is change your idea, and just do one thing every time. I wish you can be the one you want to be.
- Reply mei2011
Tange: i forgot the day when i was 27 , long time ago
It maybe very impressive when it is your birthday, but when it just past, it will not that very impressive any more.
- Reply mei2011
- Yeah, for us, when we are grow up, the simplicity is not that very easy, maybe what I can do is as you said a simple mind ,and a good altitude face the life~
samanthe: I saw one sentence before:when I was young,happiness was simple;now that I've grown up, simplicity is happiness. Don't make you so stressful. Reading ...
- Reply mei2011
- Yeah, just as what you said, take it easy, and do it step by step,things will be done and things will be ok~ and also as you said about the human, it is really with a rapid changes in our daily life~
sunnyv: Sigh ~~~ Isn't that what happens to everybody? Everyone seems to have a long list of things undone and it looks like those things would never be finis ...
- Reply mei2011
someiyosino: So it is with me that it is so normal with no birthday cake,I'm 21 years over .I hardly celebrate my birthday .Since I start my University life,my bi ...
Birthday is just a normal day for us, but must be some impressive date for many reasons~with impressive feeling when in that day~Things will be fine anyway!
- Reply mei2011
Emmaml: Happy birthday to your mother and you. Yes , July seems to leave us, By My Side, so many things happened too, I experienced a lot of failure in this ...
Every experience is worth in our life,no matter it is failure or success,you will learn something from the every experiences,So do not that depress,just fight for what we are looking for and fight for what we are pursuing~ Ordinary people ordinary life and ordinary hero life~
