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Things do not follow the way I thought it would be; I am in a bad mood..
I am new here, in a new city, a new work place with new colleagues. Everything is brand new, even my dream. I count the job a new start, and my heart was filled with great hope and endless ambition at the moment of signing the contract for work, as well as confidence.
I know nothing about the place, the people. I tried to be nice to everyone and I work hard every day.
But nothing goes well. They did not treat me back equally, and I made mistakes--the silly ones , now and then.
I am in a bad state.
Kind of embarrassing.
I have been through situation like this three years ago , now again. I do not understand why and I hate some of them, deeply.
I have to be strong, too strong to be harmed.
I am a good doctor, and I know it.
I don’t deserve this.
I have been proved myself, and I can do it again.
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Post comment Comment (3 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Allow me to tell you that work is never difficult and can always be controlled and managed. However, it is very difficult to manage and handle people at the workplace. Everyone has his/her own aspirations and ambitions. Everyone makes stupid mistakes, who doesn't? That's the way we learn. People are by nature self protective and sometime selfish. The sad reality is that hey would only be good to you when you have something to offer to them When colleagues are bad to you, that does not mean you have failed. All these things happens in most workplaces.
Getting angry is just punishing yourself for the mistakes of others.
All you have to do now is to get on with your work, be nice to everyone like you did, learn as much as you can. When people know you are learning and cannot be pushed down, they would start respecting you and be nice to you. Never fight with bad people ~*~ they have nothing to loose!
Be strong and confident.
- Reply teadrinking
- things are hard at the fist beginning, on this level, it is not a big deal, sometimes the one will feel bad and lonely in a foreign place because of no connections and is not familiar with people and local situation.
as to work, it is ok, there is no perfection, and have no such a good place where people are all friendly, but in terms of work, we have to face it, anyway, to live is first priority we need to consider. Plus, do not feel so bad about yourself and do not let you down, everybody makes mistakes, only if you can make sure that you will do it better and show that you are not so bad
at last, I hope that you can get used to it sooner or later in the new environment
