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A male friend of mine got married the other day.On hearing this,I was kind of lost.
We used to hang out big-time and tell each other almost everything.
The day before he was married, he called me. And besides the news of the marriage,he told me something else.
"I do not know when it starts ,I had this crush on you, but I can't put it loud and clear,lest our friendship was at risk,
so I stay friends with you all the time to find if there is still any chance covered.
I used to tell you that I want to be in a relationshi-- in a funny tone--just to identify your reaction, and to my surprise,you set me up.
I had to admit then that I failed--there is no chance at all.
So I choose to let go.
It takes a long period of time and it is tough .But when I finally turned around ,I made the discovery of her .
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This is the only chance I got to tell you things like this :I loved you,deeply,but I don't anymore
I am totally over you now, so be comfortable to be friends with me.
I will be married tomorrow.I got a kind and beautiful wife.I love her.
There is a great possibility that you may like her and be friends with her,I hope
good wishes to both of us ,my dear friend".
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Via the phone,I said nothing but thanks.
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Maybe there is part of me has feelings for him, to some extend. He is kind of my soul mate.He knew me well.
I did not realize it until he told me that there is a girl in his life and now I am more convinced that I do love him because I was broken-hearted at the moment of hearing the news
Ithought that he will always be there all the time,available, and now out of nowhere,he will be a husband,with a wife around the corner.
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We met at college,and then became good friends.he was humous and an absolutely fluent talker, so I was fond of hanging out with him.
----------to be continued
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Post comment Comment (4 replies)
- Reply ocean0721
- Now that you love him, you should let him know your feelings before. Love can't wait. The words you couldn't say to him have separared you guys. It's such a tragedy.
- Reply Kevin_z
- Maybe you liked him, but surely you don't love him, at least not enough.
I believe he went though a tough time on letting you go. But it will be much easier for you to let him go. You'll meet the one who make you lose control.
- Reply sunnyv
- I have doubt about his real intentions. He should not have told you these things at the time of his marriage. He seems just want to make you regret losing him and make it looks like that it is your fault.
When a man has real love towards a girl, he would surely find some way to let her know and if he is rejected, he won't just give up so easily.
His wish that you become friends with his wife is just to show off that you are his ex or pursuer. Don't let him have that satisfaction. You are miserable enough already and he should at least try to make you feel better if he is really concerned about you. I have seen quite a lot of people taking advantage of the misery of friends and this could be one of those.
Anyway, just let him know that you have no regrets and that you have your plans for your own future.
