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Four years ago, he asked her: if there is one day I got married with somebody else, what are you gonna do?
“How dare you; I will kill you”
Two years ago, he popped up the same question;
“If that is exactly what happened, I will stay single, waiting for you to come back”
He struck up the same conversation with her a couple days ago, she sat beside him, looking him in the eye, with a clam smile: I would find someone falling in love and get married;
You do not love me anymore, do you?
Yes, you give up on me, how come you expect me to stay where we started; I am fairly certain that I would end up with someone else just like you do’
As the year roll on, different answers come along with the same question. It is not about the affection, it is about the way how you think of it; falling in love isn’t as simple as you thought it would be; just so you know being in love forever and ever took more than a vow in life.
We are past the point where the sweet words would work out everything, aren’t we?
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Post comment Comment (3 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Sigh.... Love and romantic relations can be quite painful and distressing. Anyone who has fallen in love deeply and broke up with the one you loved would know that terrible suffering.
Normally, at the beginning, it is always sweet, nice, mutually caring and a world of their own. After a year or so when the novelty or freshness of the relations is reduced, danger signs come up and red lights turns on. There would be doubts about the suitability of each other for a marriage. The wonder if they could find somebody else better. That is why living together has disadvantages and marriage should be committed within a year of being together. Once married it would be a lifelong commitment and separation would be a high price for both. The system of marriage is designed to keep marriages together forever. The situation nowadays is that men are reluctant to marry due to financial constraints and the desire to live single and independent as long as possible, but girls don't have the resource to wait because they have age limitations and age considerations.
I myself choose to remain single to avoid all those nerve wrecking worries of romantic and marriage relationships. The burden is much heavier on girls than men. This is unfair to girls so there should be a sort of romantic revolution of something to improve the situation.
Everyone have different thoughts, so take care of your own interests at the right time depending on your own situation.
- Reply teadrinking
- AS time goes, sweet words usually do not sustain. When we make decision, we have to try and see if it works. Because a long time of waiting usually really tortures one's patience and will.
Happy New Chinese Year.
- Reply ada23
- through your blog i fully understand the sentence i heard these days: the most romatic thing is your accompany me. When we more aged, the more things we find hard to keep, the more fear added on our mind and more mature to judge the surroundings and people. I just have to say once you loved each other, but with time aging, you two are not matched again.
