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What didn't kill you make you stronger.
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Having experienced the unbearable torture of delivery, all the mothers in the world gain the inexplicable joy--to have a perfect baby of her own and at the same time become stronger than before. The butterflies have no chance to survive without the laborious process during which they must spare no effort in using their own muscles to get out of the cocoons. The same thing happens to human beings,too. Once a person experience some kind of torture, in that process he'll learn how to be brave and how to be strong. Faced with difficulties, dilemma and quandaries, he chooses to be a hero who fights all the way until there comes the ending.(At that time, whether it is a happy ending or an disappointing ending is not important any more. The process is the point where we should focus on). That is to say, it is not the result that makes us strong or happy but the painstaking procedure.
Peope are always good at complaining what they are experiencing. In my opinion, everyone does have the right to groan and complain on the hard things, but what should be noticed more is that the terrible, horror and anguished process is the most precious way to train people to be strong and brave. Think about all the terrible things which you think almost killed you in the past. You have gallantly conquer that nuisance and you turely are a hero. Don't you think you become stronger and braver than before, or gain something useful at least?
What I want to say is that we are indeed tortured sometimes, but when we find we are successfully being the survivor, we'll understand the priceless lesson we have taught to oursleves.
Post comment Comment (7 replies)
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
We make progress in the process
- Reply monkid
- IMNONARCISSUS:Yeah~! Every laborious process should be treated as invaluable treasure for us.We make progress in the process
- Reply XueHaiWuYa
- Very well written and insightful! Overcoming adversity certainly brings greater thrill to whoever face the challenges bravely.... Thanks for sharing.
- Reply monkid
- danyduan: Original ideas
I get this idea from Think a Minute. I just totally agree with that!~
- Reply monkid
- XueHaiWuYa: Very well written and insightful! Overcoming adversity certainly brings greater thrill to whoever face the challenges bravely.... Thanks for sharing.I wrote this because that as a weak person now, I really want to be strong. And also I hope people can truly enjoy their lives.
