Blogs
Adjust my own state to enjoy everyday
|
Recently I have been upset for my work, my family and my son.
My work is not meet the reqirement of my salary. So I decide to change it as soon as possible, but reaaly have no many suitable posts for me now, especially meet my experence. So I feel powerless in my owrk.
My family was so, there are lot of housework need to do everday. Cooking, clean room and take care of my son (my husband's mother and father help to take care my son at home when we are working in day, but they are old more then 60 years old, so also there are manything need to do by myself.) etc after over my work to back to home. So I always feek tired.
Especially my son, he almost 5 months up to now. But he often cry whatever day and night. At night he often wake up and cry, maybe 4-5 times to eat, in addition he would play or cry more then 2h sometimes. Sure my husband help me sometimes. So I had no a good sleep since he was born.
Although thinking back, I still should feel thankfully. At first my company is neer my home and I can give consideration to my home anytime. The second my husband's mother also help me to take my son when we're working. The third I was so happy when play with my son and saw he grow up healthy. He was so cute and lovely without crying.
I feel helpness sometimes, however I also try my best to insist doing everything well. Here I share my feeling only by this way. Whatever I known that I should and must to adjust my own to enjoy everyday.
Especially my son, he almost 5 months up to now. But he often cry whatever day and night. At night he often wake up and cry, maybe 4-5 times to eat, in addition he would play or cry more then 2h sometimes. Sure my husband help me sometimes. So I had no a good sleep since he was born.
Although thinking back, I still should feel thankfully. At first my company is neer my home and I can give consideration to my home anytime. The second my husband's mother also help me to take my son when we're working. The third I was so happy when play with my son and saw he grow up healthy. He was so cute and lovely without crying.
I feel helpness sometimes, however I also try my best to insist doing everything well. Here I share my feeling only by this way. Whatever I known that I should and must to adjust my own to enjoy everyday.
Post comment Comment (15 replies)
- Reply cestlavie
- life is tough to a mother, just like my sisters, but it would better later when the child grows up.
- Reply 0Carlychan0
- this is an unforgettable experience to be a mother, it's a period of learning, it's tough period though. i hope you can get through it smoothly.
- Reply zhouying2012
- 0Carlychan0: this is an unforgettable experience to be a mother, it's a period of learning, it's tough period though. i hope you can get through it smoothly.Yes, I really known that the tough to be a mother, especially the new mother like me. I need to learn more about it.
- Reply zhouying2012
- cestlavie: life is tough to a mother, just like my sisters, but it would better later when the child grows up.Yes, really tired now, I believe it will be better when he grows up, maybe after 6 months later, insisting and come on!
- Reply zhouying2012
- Tange: most of person has the same way like yours ,Yes, to be a mother, every girl would get through, so I should keep a smooth heart.
- Reply sunnyv
- Life is not meant to be easy from day we were born. Childhood problems, illness, personality, studies, examinations, college, jobs, relationships, marriage, savings, home-buying, social-problems, aging, elderly life, age-related problems and finally heaven. Many of these problems are insurmountable.
We all should have careful planning and foresight to avoid problems. Most of the problems you are going through now are part of normal married life. Every mother must go through childbearing, nurturing, raising and all aspects of childcare. A child crying at night is only part of the sacrifice and suffering you have to go through.
However, there are a lot of satisfaction and enjoyment in raising a child. The problems and difficulties would reduce and disappear as the child grows up. You would then see your child learning fast and growing healthily. That is the base of a happy and fulfilled family.
As for your career, it is normal to go through difficulties, challenges, unfairness, competition and self-improvement before you settle into a long-term satisfying position. Earning money has never been easy. The job market is weak now. You can seek a better job at a suitable time. There must be suitable jobs for you if you are capable.
Now all you have to do is to handle and overcome difficulties as it comes. There would be rainbows after the rain and clear a blue sky would be yours to enjoy.
Wish you the best.
- Reply Candy.liu
- My girl is more than seven months now. I also need to work, and take care of her when back home. I also felt tired and boring sometimes. But life goes on, enjoy the time with family, especially the time with little baby...
- Reply zhouying2012
- ben.: Maybe after a few years, you will find what you are doing is quite meaningful.Yeah, maybe like you said. Thanks, I'll try as good as possible.
- Reply zhouying2012
- Candy.liu: My girl is more than seven months now. I also need to work, and take care of her when back home. I also felt tired and boring sometimes. But life goesYes, agree with you, we certainly should enjoy this time with our little baby, actually we have no much time with our children. They'll go out of our family after study in where is far away from home, especially when they are working in years later. So I'll still insist although more tired in this period.
- Reply zhouying2012
- sunnyv: Life is not meant to be easy from day we were born. Childhood problems, illness, personality, studies, examinations, college, jobs, relationships, mar
Thanks for your encourage and guid. Yes, your comment is so right and frankness. I feel so relaxationre and happy after got your comment.
My problem is looks such normal for the new mother like me. Whatever, my family, my work and my son, they are the important and insurmountable part of my life. I must go through this period. The imprtant is keep the common heart to deal with these problems.
Yes, really thanks a lot for you show this important point for me. I'll do well like you said. Come on! Here wishes for you too!
- Reply sunnyv
- Thanks and I am touched by your comments too. We all can be easily be lost in all the problems in front of us. So long as you know that it is part of the ups and downs of life, you would be able to overcome all the difficulties.
when you have time take some lovely colorful homely photos of you, your child and your husband and keep the photos on your beside table to remind yourself of the happy times. Just one look at the sweet innocent face of your little baby would be enough make you feel truly satisfied. Now, just wipe the tears from your eyes, put on a smile and get on with your life and duty as a mother. Cheers. Sunny.
- Reply zhouying2012
- sunnyv: Thanks and I am touched by your comments too. We all can be easily be lost in all the problems in front of us. So long as you know that it is part ofYes, I love my family, my husbans and my son. Facing the kinds of dissicuties and problems now, I'll deal with as a normal heart like you said. Duty as a good wife and a good mother is my willing.
