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Keep the common heart in especial period
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This is a friend's comment for my blog. In my opinion, this is a good idear for me. So I'll save it forever. It tell me that I should keep the common heart in especial period in our life. We must go through and overcome all of the difficulties, then the happiness will comes normally. Thanks my friend.
His comment as below:
Life is not meant to be easy from day we were born. Childhood problems, illness, personality, studies, examinations, college, jobs, relationships, marriage, savings, home-buying, social-problems, aging, elderly life, age-related problems and finally heaven. Many of these problems are insurmountable.
Life is not meant to be easy from day we were born. Childhood problems, illness, personality, studies, examinations, college, jobs, relationships, marriage, savings, home-buying, social-problems, aging, elderly life, age-related problems and finally heaven. Many of these problems are insurmountable.
We all should have careful planning and foresight to avoid problems. Most of the problems you are going through now are part of normal married life. Every mother must go through childbearing, nurturing, raising and all aspects of childcare. A child crying at night is only part of the sacrifice and suffering you have to go through.
However, there are a lot of satisfaction and enjoyment in raising a child. The problems and difficulties would reduce and disappear as the child grows up. You would then see your child learning fast and growing healthily. That is the base of a happy and fulfilled family.
As for your career, it is normal to go through difficulties, challenges, unfairness, competition and self-improvement before you settle into a long-term satisfying position. Earning money has never been easy. The job market is weak now. You can seek a better job at a suitable time. There must be suitable jobs for you if you are capable.
Now all you have to do is to handle and overcome difficulties as it comes. There would be rainbows after the rain and clear a blue sky would be yours to enjoy.
Post comment Comment (2 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Wow... thanks for your kind compliments and glad to note that you appreciate my comments and that you would keep the advice at heart.
Actually, my message is merely a friendly advice for people facing difficulties and challenges of life. People often say "the bystanders has a clearer mind". The problems you are facing now would be solved or different next year and there would be other matters to attend to at that time. Just let go. These are normal happenings and nobody can escape them. Look closely and you should be happy that you have a normal, healthy, happy child and a helpful regular family by your side. Many people from broken families in despair or suffering from illness would be happy pray for what you have now. The real source of happiness is knowing to be content and grateful. Your duty is to hold everybody together and create a simple happy family. Wish you the best.
- Reply zhouying2012
- sunnyv: Wow... thanks for your kind compliments and glad to note that you appreciate my comments and that you would keep the advice at heart.
Actually, my me
Maybe my life is so simplicity and freedom in the past that I don't suit this life soon with a little baby. Besides, it bring some presurre of life and work, so I feel so tried. But I need to adjust as soon as possible. Thanks for your advice as a friend.
