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A friend of blog sent a blog about the ralationship of a happy marriage with the money, house, car and love.
Looking at this good title, I can comment simply. But I prefer to say something about my marriage, here's may be a kind of comment for his blog.
Looking at this good title, I can comment simply. But I prefer to say something about my marriage, here's may be a kind of comment for his blog.
The road of love for my husband and I as below:
1. We were the schoolmate in middle school and high school periods. But my husband was so introverted and less said at that time, so we almost didn`t know each other till we sit at the same table at high school sophomore.
2. We got on well all along and then fell in love with each other after high school graduating.
3. We had the most happy life at the college life in the same city in my hometown.
4. After we graduated at 2008, we needed to have a job. So we both decided to go a big city where far away from my hometown for working. Sure it's also the same city.
5. With our parents' blessed, we promised to marry in our old home at 2010.
6. After working for more then 3 years, we thought that we should start to ready for marry. So we chose Chengdu for living and came here at 2011. Then we bought an our own house at the end of 2011. I can say it's by ourselves although we borrowed much money at that time.
7. All were in order, we got married at early of 2012. We felt very happy with so many blesses of our relatives.
8. My son was born in the end of 2012. Up to now, he is more then 7 months.
...Our life will go on with happiness!!
1. We were the schoolmate in middle school and high school periods. But my husband was so introverted and less said at that time, so we almost didn`t know each other till we sit at the same table at high school sophomore.
2. We got on well all along and then fell in love with each other after high school graduating.
3. We had the most happy life at the college life in the same city in my hometown.
4. After we graduated at 2008, we needed to have a job. So we both decided to go a big city where far away from my hometown for working. Sure it's also the same city.
5. With our parents' blessed, we promised to marry in our old home at 2010.
6. After working for more then 3 years, we thought that we should start to ready for marry. So we chose Chengdu for living and came here at 2011. Then we bought an our own house at the end of 2011. I can say it's by ourselves although we borrowed much money at that time.
7. All were in order, we got married at early of 2012. We felt very happy with so many blesses of our relatives.
8. My son was born in the end of 2012. Up to now, he is more then 7 months.
...Our life will go on with happiness!!
In my opinion, this is the real life, the happy marriage for us. All family member is healthy and have the happy life. Loving my family and all members.
Ok, do you known what is important in our road of marriage? Not house, not car and also not money. In a word it's ture love.
I beleive that the true love is the foundation of our marriage. We together from years ago up to now, from students to be a monther and father, from there are no anything to have our own house. You can see it's created step by step by ourselves, at last we build a happiness family together, although we ever experienced many bad somethings between us.
I beleive that the true love is the foundation of our marriage. We together from years ago up to now, from students to be a monther and father, from there are no anything to have our own house. You can see it's created step by step by ourselves, at last we build a happiness family together, although we ever experienced many bad somethings between us.
So I believe ture love, I'll tell you that the others would be developed later and all of the everything we want will be come.
Post comment Comment (17 replies)
- Reply huakai97
- Not to get married for the purpose of fall in love is play rascal!
you are a lucky woman ,happy forever!
- Reply zhouying2012
ocean0721: You are such a lucky woman! Your husband and you will be happy forever.
Thanks for your wishes! I believe we can. You too, yeah.
- Reply zhouying2012
- Yes, I think so, my husband and I both lucky, and we will go on our happiness in the future. Wishes for you too!
huakai97: Not to get married for the purpose of fall in love is play rascal!
you are a lucky woman ,happy forever!
- Reply sunnyv
- Both you and your husband must have done a lot of good things in your last life and you blessed with such a happy family. You have already struggled past the most difficult stages of marriage which involves, finance, jobs, housing, relationship and child bearing. Accordingly, your marriage has a sound foundation, therefore, you are on the way to a long lasting sweet marriage and family life. Happy for you.
However, not many people can find that kind of fulfilled life. Most of the people I came across could not get marriage because of insufficient money, no house and unable to maintain a family. Some also face opposition from parents for various reasons. Many of them work hard and live a decent life but still unable to achieve their marriage dreams. So many girls are forced to marry the rich just to please their parents and relatives. This is very unfair to those who are suffering such suppression.
The meaning of my blog is to understand how people are affected by these material things and how they overcome them. I can't understand why should money be so important in love and marriage.
Anyway, these are the faults of our society and customs. We have no choice but to wait until such cruel thinking is eliminated. Wish everybody a happy lovelife or married life.
- Reply junly
- There are so many things about marriage，housing、money、parents、children，but i insist that love is still the foundation of the marriage，I can understand people pursue material life in this stressful society，but that marriage based on money can not be happy，i agree with author“opinion，i think love is more important than else。
- Reply Tange
- the happy time is continue , ,,, all of women should gain the marriage like yours , simple but full of happy taste ..
- Reply perseverance
- in college, most of us walk together for true love, but when we go into society, many of us will break up. because she doesn't want to have a prverty life with man who loves her. she wanna have a better comfortable life, so she wants to marry man who has a hourse and a car. but man who just graduated years ago can't give her these things.
- Reply Ausfrank
- When you claim that your happy marriage is base on your true love, but most people would think you are just lucky. Why? Because they are wondering wether the true love is real or not initially.
Love is a kind of feeling and is always true unless you lie about it. But what goes wrong is the expections in your life. The reasons of a couple could not get married is not because of wether their love is true or not true, it is their expectations that do not match together, especially towards a long journey of the marriage. Therefor stay single is the way has to go if you are UNLUCKY. Love is not something to blame.
Am I right? I don't know, leave up to you.
- Reply zhouying2012
- Yes, nowadays, there are many girls want to marry the rich cause they wouldn't like to hard work in the last life. But like this, they maybe put theirselves into the worse status of the last life. They'll can't feel the real happiness caused by they have no ture love.
sunnyv: Both you and your husband must have done a lot of good things in your last life and you blessed with such a happy family. You have already struggled p ...
- Reply zhouying2012
- Thanks, you too. Try our best to build our own happy family. This is the most important in our whole life.
Basa: you are lucky woman ,wish you will happy forever!
- Reply zhouying2012
- Yes, happy marriage is base on loving.
junly: There are so many things about marriage，housing、money、parents、children，but i insist that love is still the foundation of the marriage，I can und ...
- Reply zhouying2012
- Yeah, I hope so. We everyone have the right to enjoy happiness. Wishes you here!
Tange: the happy time is continue , ,,, all of women should gain the marriage like yours , simple but full of happy taste ..
- Reply zhouying2012
- Yes, in some degree, these girls want to find a rich, this think are right cause they want to get more comforable life. But I want to say, the more comfortable life shouldn't depend on the man, but oursleve. This is real good way for the last life.
perseverance: in college, most of us walk together for true love, but when we go into society, many of us will break up. because she doesn't want to have a prverty ...
- Reply zhouying2012
Ausfrank: When you claim that your happy marriage is base on your true love, but most people would think you are just lucky. Why? Because they are wondering wet ...
Maybe you're right. Sure if you think so.
Here I need to tell you, Love is the most important part in the marriage life. This is right absolutely. Long time to love or short time, it's so.
