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A friend of the QQ group said he was feeling not well when he saw the old man from his neighbor who an old man died one month ago. This is because he often realizes that they are very neer to die, moreover, he often thinks of his grandma.
We known he needs to break out of this bad statu. So let's help him here.
According to his story. I want to tell him:
The old man's death, it's a nature cycle of life. Maybe it's not a bad arrangement for them. Liking for bus riding, they passed so many stations and then they want to get off. So, as a youth as us, we can expect more in the years to come, but for them. They had experienced all, that's it. We may see the world from their positions and then we can understand them more. For cantonese that I heard from my colleagues, the funeral for people over 80 years old is called "happy funeral（笑丧或喜丧，more or less the same concept）". Besides, indeed in Tibetan peoples' heart, the death is the beginning of the another life.
We known he needs to break out of this bad statu. So let's help him here.
According to his story. I want to tell him:
The old man's death, it's a nature cycle of life. Maybe it's not a bad arrangement for them. Liking for bus riding, they passed so many stations and then they want to get off. So, as a youth as us, we can expect more in the years to come, but for them. They had experienced all, that's it. We may see the world from their positions and then we can understand them more. For cantonese that I heard from my colleagues, the funeral for people over 80 years old is called "happy funeral（笑丧或喜丧，more or less the same concept）". Besides, indeed in Tibetan peoples' heart, the death is the beginning of the another life.
Thus they just completed their journey of life, that's good. So it's a good thing for them, we should be happy for them, but not sorrowful.
I really think about it. I have even thought when I should die, Haha.
I really think about it. I have even thought when I should die, Haha.
Although, I still feel so sorrwfull when my relatives died, such as my grandfather, my grandpa, my uncle (my father's elder brother) and my big nirut (my mother's first younger brother). Some of them didn't over 80 years old when they died. So pity but wishes them.
Post comment Comment (2 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Yes, what you told your friend is right. That is the correct way to see life and death. Everybody has to go sometime. 80 or 90 what is the difference. So long as you have lived a normal life and did not have much suffering, return to nature in a peaceful mood.
- Reply zhouying2012
- Keeping in a peaceful mood to see life and death is the best and correct way for us. In that case, we should go on our happy life after the short time sorrwfull for the death.
sunnyv: Yes, what you told your friend is right. That is the correct way to see life and death. Everybody has to go sometime. 80 or 90 what is the difference. ...
