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Whenever I feel void in heart, I read books.
Whenever I feel sad, I shift my attention to anything which can keep me busy.
I feel void and sad right now, thus I am writing down exact what I feel at this moment.
Haven't recovered from the pain caused by love. I know it can only be cured by time the almighty. With time passing by, I might forget many things, including him. One confusion always exists in my mind, is it true that for some women,maturity can be overloaded and a burdon for guys.
I am not mature enough in a relationship. Sometimes I expect being spoiled by my man. No, spoiled is too much a word. Loved should be more appropriate here. I love this guy and want to recieve the love from him. If not, I would feel depressed and frustrated. Would he care? No.
Any emotion fluctuation in me needs audience, the only audience. Him,only him. However,I was a solo player in this relationship.
I don't want to become a complaining woman, no whine. If it ends, then let it end well. Nobody is to blame.
I gotta snap out of it and find new interest in life.
Reading, travelling, making friends, anything that can drag me out of the painful memory.
There is fish everywhere. There is definitely one for me.
From now on, no distraction, concentrate myself on the coming new life. Learn to appreciate the world. Enjoy the beauty of nature. Travel more places. Widen my eyes.
Tomorrow is another day.
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- Reply TUCHTHESKY
- you just shift your attention. the question is not disapear. you love the boy and the boy love you, but you do not stay with each other. last year one of my colleague met the same things like you. after she coming back from Xizang,yunnan,chongqing, she thought herself has forgotten the ex-boyfriend. some months later, when she wanted accepted another man's propose. the ex-boyfriend called her and begged another chance. although we always say do not let our lovers be hurted. more often than not we make our sweetlove cry. so there should be enough communication and forgiving between the two hearts. by the way the girl come back to her ex-boyfriend. and this weekend we will have a dinner together.
- Reply stefaniechen
- the most strong monster in the world is ex. that's ture...
TUCHTHESKY: you just shift your attention. the question is not disapear. you love the boy and the boy love you, but you do not stay with each other. last year one ...
- Reply sunnyv
- Good advice. That is why I like to say; Seek the truth about love, if he wants to go, let him go. If he comes back to you, then he is yours forever. If not, good riddance.
TUCHTHESKY: you just shift your attention. the question is not disapear. you love the boy and the boy love you, but you do not stay with each other. last year one ...
- Reply sunnyv
- LOVE & MARRIAGE IS LIKE A BOX OF CHOCOLATE;
Most people get larried believing a myth that love/marriage is a
beautiful box full of all the things they have long for;
companionship, intimacy, friendship, love, support.
The truth is that the marriage at the start is an empty box.
You must put chocolates in before you can take anything out.
The love which you have is tested in the marriage.
You must infuse it into marriage.
A couple must learn the art and form the habit of
giving, loving, serving, praising, keeping the box full.
If you take our more than you put in, the box would be empty.
The same goes for a love relationship.
- Reply TUCHTHESKY
- the theory of box let us know how to keep balance in marriage. very nice.
sunnyv: LOVE & MARRIAGE IS LIKE A BOX OF CHOCOLATE;
Most people get larried believing a myth that love/marriage is a
beautiful box full of all the things they ...
- Reply TUCHTHESKY
- usually an ex includes a sorrowful memory.
stefaniechen: the most strong monster in the world is ex. that's ture...
- Reply wolf13
- I have just been deeply hurt by love recently. That's really tough to get over. But now everything seems to be getting better, and I hope the peaceful life will go on. Then I can forget the passed unpleasant days. Just bear in mind that everything is possible,and there is always something out of our control, never be too optimistic, nor too pessimistic. The world is so big , and we are so small. Stay hopeful, and we can go much further.:）
