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Suddenly, I want to go back to my husband’s hometown in Hunan province. He is from a remote countryside, I think the people there are simple , honest and friendly. I like breathe the fresh air there. Maybe we just stay in big city for a long time , and the air pollution is very serious in big city, sometimes we will miss the days we spend in the countryside. His father love us very much , every time we go home , he just cook for us and did not need us to finish the housework.
Life is not easy for us, and we only can go home once a year. Only in the spring festival will be have long holiday,nearly two weeks. I know my husbands miss his family so much. He has no choice but work in Guangdong. Sometimes he deliver some new clothes by online shopping to his family. He is the only child in his family , and his mother passed away when he was a little baby. My parents love my husband and me very much. Every time we visit them, they treat us very well and they promise would help us to take good care of our child once we have a baby. Since the business is not well in these two years, my parents can spare time to look after a baby. I really appreciate their love for me. I think I have to work hard to improve the living condition for them. I plan to buy a new desk top computer to my father in the upcoming national holiday, I guess he will be very exciting by receiving this special gift.
Shirley
Aug.24th,2012
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- Reply xgq19831010
- You are a very kind girl and you will be happiness.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- xgq19831010: You are a very kind girl and you will be happiness.Thank u for saying so. God bless you too.
- Reply sunnyv
- I travel to various cities in China for work and during the holidays I like to go to the small villages and towns for visits. The slow paced peaceful and simple living is so relaxing. You can sit under the trees among the fields to read a book or just enjoy the rural scenery. I also love to buy some local snacks to eat. It is so enjoyable to walk through the towns and villages through the narrow roads. Often the locals are surprised to see a foreigner wandering around, thinking I am lost and offer to help me find my way out of the place. Some also invited me to their homes. Friends told me there are risks visiting and eating at unknown places and nobody can help me if I get into trouble. I am not worried because if you want to see real things, you have to venture into the unknown. So far, nothing happened to me and on the contrary I have made a lot of friends young and old.
As for the thoughts about moving back to your husband's hometown in Hunan province, you should first consider your overall siutation. There are far fewer opportunities in rural towns and if you are planning to have children, living in a major city is more suitable. Life in the major cities are full of challenges and stress, so either way, it would a struggle. However, if you work hard and save up sufficient money for your own house, life can be quite happy anywhere.
You have such caring and wonderful parents. Perhaps you can bring them to live with you when the time is right. Meanwhile, they would feel your love and care for them feeling the sweetness at the bottom of their hearts.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- sunnyv: I travel to various cities in China for work and during the holidays I like to go to the small villages and towns for visits. The slow paced peacefulI was touch by your words, in fact, sometimes just want to back to the contryside to have a good relaxation ,may one month or15 days is ok. To find a good job in a remote province is unrealistic and we will not go to Hunan to make a living.
- Reply jacky_zw27
- you are kind of girl
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- jacky_zw27: you are kind of girlThanks,
- Reply moli
- We have to face the fact that our child will not be with us if we get old some day in the future.
Learn to how to make a living before we are able to enjoy life.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- moli: We have to face the fact that our child will not be with us if we get old some day in the future.Thank you for your suggestion. You are very kind.
Learn to how to make a living before we are able to
- Reply 逍遥飞吧
- some girls are eager to live in the town and they married a man of wealth . because the remote area is not suitable for us to live . we have no choice but struggle to live in the city . wish you happy forever .
- Reply feiyuyitiao
- you situation was just like me, I have working as a migrant worker for several years with my wife, and the different was we had a baby girl two weeks ago, first i was very happy about this , but then the problems comes, it's seems impossible to take care of out daughter as well as go to work, you know child need her mother to fed, but in BeiJing, it's not very convenient because bad traffic and her company was from out renting home. meanwhile, out parents was not able to help us because some reason although they love us and our daughter very much....sometime we didn't communication very well. alas, life was so cruel when you are not ready!
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- feiyuyitiao: you situation was just like me, I have working as a migrant worker for several years with my wife, and the different was we had a baby girl two weeksI can entirely understand your situation. I think the baby must be live with parents and feel the love which parents provide for him or her. Due to our poor econimic condition, we have not carry a baby till now. Thank you very much for your kindly comment and hope your family are happy always. God bless you, my dear friend.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- 逍遥飞吧: some girls are eager to live in the town and they married a man of wealth . because the remote area is not suitable for us to live . we have no choiThank you very much. I do not think marry to a weathly man will happy for every girl. Because money can not buy happiness. It is important for us to choose a man or a lady who is fit for us. If we equal money to happiness , that is wrong. If you turely love a person, you do not care who is he or she is come from. Ture love are able to conquer every obstacles.
- Reply Vicky-gogo
- god bless you ,my dear friend .Give more confidence
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Vicky-gogo: god bless you ,my dear friend .Give more confidencethank you.
