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I am not in good mood these days. So many unpleasant things happened to me these days, the Chinese Spring Festival is around the corner, but I am not happy at all. I am scare to face my family and the brand new year.
I am worry about my future life due to the poor economic situation between us. Why do people get married if they are not able to live in the same city? Sometimes I asked my husband this question. I made my own way to come to him, but the result was unsatisfactory. He lost him job due to some reasons. Now I lost my job as well, sometimes I just cannot understand how to deal with people. Why someone hurt me like that? I just can not figure out how could things be like this? Am I the type of person who was born to hurt?
I do not know what will happen in the coming days. Should I go back to village to be a farmer in order to reduce the hurt from others? If so, why should I waste my parent’s money to go to college? All of these unpleasant things scramble our original plan. At the middle of this year, we plan to save money for about 12 months, in order to make some material preparation for a new baby.How I wish to have our own baby, but I do not know when will be get enough money to have one. The second plan was to buy a new TV in my husbands’ hometown. But under the current situation, I think it is impossible to fulfill these actions.
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- Reply Tange
- ups and downs , that is a part of lfe;
there is a saying : just enjoy your life when your job in the decline profits ; when your career in the blooming stage just enjoy your success.生辉煌时享受成就 ，低谷时好好享受人
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Tange: ups and downs , that is a part of lfe;Tange, long time no see, thanks very much for your couragement. I will be ok , do not worry. I am in a bad luck these days.
there is a saying : just enjoy your life when your job in the decline profits ; when your career in the bloomi
- Reply Soar
- It seems you are not very lucky these days, you know everything will be Ok, you just need to be patient and find your new jobs. With the spring festival coming, it is the best time to find jobs. May you good luck from now on.
- Reply loly90
- Tange: ups and downs , that is a part of lfe;
there is a saying : just enjoy your life when your job in the decline profits ; when your career in the bloomi
Hmm, so i think i'm enjoying my life now.
- Reply 逍遥飞吧
- hello ! we are all in the basement of the society . let us strive together no matter what the future is . keep the usual mind , the poor people also has his happiness as the rich one . the life would get better gradually .
- Reply warmjaney
- No, you are not the type of being hurt, we are not. As per the above friend said, ups and downs are just part of life, it's common. It will pass, but should keep going forward; One of my teachers in college said that everyone is special in the world;New Year, New image, wish you good luck. Fighting more!
- Reply Tange
- loly90:Hmm, so i think i'm enjoying my life now. hehe, when a door be closed, don't forget that a window would be open for you .
life should be fun, just enjoy your time..
- Reply cestlavie
- the hard times would pass soon, don't lose your hope. Several days before, i read an useful sentence as follows: 世上没有绝望的处境，只有对处境绝望的人。i was depressed at that monent , however, after seeing this words, i felt that i should cherry up and hold on, i am not the person who faces difficulty, everything would gonna be ok .
- Reply kinzhang
- I feel so sorry to hear that here i want to tell you --to be strong and face your present trouble manly , nothing could assure that you are always under a plain condition , it's not realistic ~~~Keep a good state of mind , to be optimistic, and i'm sure you are .
- Reply ac2smart
- hey,don't worry that much! it's the fact that the Chinese enconomy is not getting better,things might be hard to support a family. But never doubt yourself,have faith."every outcome is always to your advantage." The things you learnt in university would always mean a great deal in the following days.i believe you,It'll get better
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Soar: It seems you are not very lucky these days, you know everything will be Ok, you just need to be patient and find your new jobs. With the spring festivyes, we are suffer a lot in 2012. But have to face the reality.
- Reply snowflying
- ohhhh,my dear girl.i'm not so often to visit this website for so long.but when i come here,i will visit you.your this blog made me worried.what's wrong about your life?a young couple need more striving in their early original accumulation,that's not forever.God is fair to us everyone,though he closed a door. while life must has another window somewhere.fight for your family's future and fight for your future baby.don't give up hope,we each person has their own low and bottom in our long lifetime,even a middle-aged person.don't worry,you must get way to go through current temporary tough years.best wishes to you,good luck.happy new year to you couple.shieley.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- snowflying: ohhhh,my dear girl.i'm not so often to visit this website for so long.but when i come here,i will visit you.your this blog made me worried.what's wronhi ,Snowflying, long time no see, how are things with you ? I hope everything is on the right side and happy new year to you. We just have to endure a lot of bad luck for 2012. I am now have a long holiday at home , and wait for my husband to back to Hunan for the Spring Festival. We two face jobless in 2012. And misfortunate and bad luck happened suddenly, but we will get throught them. Maybe I should be brave in order not to being hurt by others. Do not worry , I will be OK.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Soar: It seems you are not very lucky these days, you know everything will be Ok, you just need to be patient and find your new jobs. With the spring festivReally black 2012 for me, hope the upcoming 2013 will bring me good luck. happy new year to you, my friend.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- ac2smart: hey,don't worry that much! it's the fact that the Chinese enconomy is not getting better,things might be hard to support a family. But never doubt youthanks for your words,I am aware of that being confident about ourselves is an important thing in our life.
