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The Chinese Spring Festival is around the corner. Everybody look back to see what we have achieved in the past year and make out a new plan for the New Year. I should have to say that the most happiness things in the past 2015 for me is to witness the growth of my little angel. I enjoy the happy hours to spend with her day and nights. It is not an easy thing to take care of her all by myself, especially when the girl baby in her infancy. My appreciation for my mother is beyond description. She sacrifice a lot of hours to take care of my baby and me from my pregnancy period to the birth of my baby.
The girl baby can sit when she was 8 months old. She is nearly 9 months old and eager to learn how to walk. She enjoy sitting in her baby walker every day and move across the room. It is our traditional concept that girl is easier to be taken care of than boy. But it is obviously not the case for my daughter. She is learning to show gesture to say goodbye these days.
Since the birth of my baby, my husband have to bear the burden to support the whole family. He has no option but to work far away from us. And we it is a big expenditure from one city to anther about the transportation. I will go out to seek for a job after the spring festival if possible. I have no idea whether my mom is able to take care of my baby all by herself. The baby is very difficult to deal with. She can recognize me easily, especially at night. She cannot accept others to look after her except me at night. And we have no good method to solve the problem till now.
Jan.17th,2016
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- Reply ada23
- It is reportedly said by scientist a bady less than 3 years only needs good care no hard requirement on who give the attention. After 3 year old it is better the parent bring up bady to form the relationship better to shape own personality.
- Reply teadrinking
- To maintain a family is not that easy. The current situation is that you are at the hard choice about if you should for working to share the burden of your husband.
Yes, you surely will go to work. If you can stay with your baby girl a little longer. Because right now, she is very needed for mother's care. You are her the big support to raise her. Of course, your mother also does the great help for taking care of the kid.
When your girl is getting a littler bit older, and then you can try to find a job. That is my suggestion.
And new year has already come, and you have your girl, which is the best gift. You can get by anything since your daughter would make you warm at any time, particularly, when you ask for a break for resting well, then go on.
- Reply Soar
- Your baby is so cute. I have the same situation like you. You are lucky that your mother can help you to take care of your baby. I hope to go back to work but no one can help me look after my little baby. He is only two months old. Best wishes to you.
- Reply sunnyv
- You have already passed the most difficult period of childbirth and the first few months of infancy. There were so much unknown, uncertainty and risks during that period and you have overcome all of them.
Now in your hands is this lovely healthy baby. She is so intelligent to be able to do the necessary things on her own like sitting, gesture good byes to people and moving around. I am sure she would be able to send a flying kiss too.
Next would be learning how to talk and walk. This is the time her learning develops, so you would need to mix learn and play. You also need to teach her basic discipline so that later when she enters nursery or kindergarten, she would fit in readily.
As for your husband working far from home, don't let that bother you because it is quite common nowadays and won't have much adverse effect on the child. You would need sufficient income and savings for the child's near future, so you would have to think about getting more income and savings. A normal child can easily adapt to your mother's care. You attending to her after work is sweet. You have already been blessed with this angel, so don't think too much and just do the needful. Take care.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- All parents want to live with their kids if possible. Sometimes people have no choice but to work far away from their kids.
ada23: It is reportedly said by scientist a bady less than 3 years only needs good care no hard requirement on who give the attention. After 3 year old it is ...
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- She called her father when she was 8 months old at the first time. Now she likes to say something meaningless and we do not understand what she is talking about. haha
Tange: recording every step of her growth experience .
the first saying - Mama , ....
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Why not ask your elder parents for help to look after your baby? It is a challenge job to look after baby all by yourself.
Soar: Your baby is so cute. I have the same situation like you. You are lucky that your mother can help you to take care of your baby. I hope to go back t ...
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Sometimes it is hard to balance the career and the family. It is a wonderful thing if we can take care of kids and make money at the same time. haha.
teadrinking: To maintain a family is not that easy. The current situation is that you are at the hard choice about if you should for working to share the burden of ...
- Reply Tange
- every mother have the talent skill in knowing her child's mind ;
shirleyytt2010: She called her father when she was 8 months old at the first time. Now she likes to say something meaningless and we do not understand what she is tal ...
when she " wawa" crying it means she need milk . when she voiced "A O A " It means she wanna go out , she thhink the outdoor have more fun....
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- You are right. I am lucky enough to embrace such a healthy baby. We hope she will enjoy her childhood and grow up rapidly, at that time, she will be more independent and no need to depend on adults for everything.
sunnyv: You have already passed the most difficult period of childbirth and the first few months of infancy. There were so much unknown, uncertainty and risks ...
