It is customs for girls to disconnect from their male friends once they get married. Especially when they got their babies, lady spend on most of the hours to take good care of baby and they are not available to hang out with friends.

On National holiday , I met a group of my high school classmates, and they suggest that we went out to the bar for drinking at night, I do not want to go, I told them I need to go to bed before 10P.M.. They were very surprised to my answer, because I do not take part in the night life with my friends in Shenzhen. I never drink alcohol and I do not like to go to the bar, maybe they think I am isolated from the youth group. Compare to drinking, I would prefer to choose eating outside with friends and singing in the karaoke, which makes me more satisfactory.  

I do not get many male friends. I do not have any chance to know some male friends since my friends cycle is too limited. I do have some common male friends, but we do not contact each other frequently.