At our youth age, we are looking forward to a romantic relationship. We want to love and to be loved by return. But after we got married, we come to realized that life is not only about the keep the sweet love status, love also means to share the responsibilities about the family. It is essential for couples to conquer the obstacles and trouble issues together.

Sometimes when you choose someone to get married, maybe he or she is not the most excellent one , but you accept his or her shortcomings and see their advantages. Of course , no one is perfect and it is important to understand ,accommodate each other, in order to move forward the relationship.

As far as I am concerned, I chose to get married at my most beautiful twenty something age. At that time, my job was not stable and it seemed that it was impossible for us to raise a kid, that was why we delay to carry a baby.

Once you lose something or some person, they will never come back again. When some relationship is missing, they cannot meet again. Do not  take it for granted that someone must be treat you well, because they do not have the obligation to do so. We should always cherish the person who love us well and do not turn a blind eye to it. In fact ,there are not so many people who are always around you when in need. When you give up a person, you must be very disappointing, that is why you choose to forget. When you cherish a person, it turn out that he or she must be worthy of you doing so.