If you're someone who aspires to something beyond the ordinary, youmust have figured out by now that there will always be those whoare jealous or resentful

It doesn't matter that you've worked long and hard to get where youare, nor that you've made great sacrifices in achieving your goals.The "haters" will always find a reason to criticize and evencondemn you.

They're spiteful people who begrudge you the pride you have inyourself and the recognition you're receiving from others. Theycan't stand it that you're happy, fulfilled and achieving yourgoals.

These hateful individuals are unwilling to do the work that you'vedone; they rarely make the same kinds of sacrifices or put in thelong, hard hours. They resent your success but are too lazy orspoiled to invest real time or energy in the pursuit of their owngoals.

It's true that we aren't always going to succeed in our ventures,even if we put in the time and effort. Results are never guaranteedand life has a way of throwing curve balls at us.

I loved it when Tina Fey went up to collect her Golden Globe andheld it high, saying, "This is for all the haters!" She's a goodexample of a talented, hard-working and successful person who'sreceived an inordinate amount of negative press. Ms. Fey may bebesieged by haters but she refuses to let them get to her.

The thing you need to know about these haters is that the onlyreason they behave this way is that you have something they wantbut they aren't willing to work for it.

The haters are convinced that you've been lucky or that you've hadsome unfair advantage but the truth is that your success is born ofyour untiring efforts, and it's these efforts that have broughtabout your "luck."

讨厌你的人总觉得你只不过是运气好而已，或者你走了后门，但事实是，你是通过自己的不懈努力才做出了成绩，这些努力才是你的“好运”所在。

The best way to deal with haters is what I call the "one-twopunch." First, don't let them phase you. Be happy about yoursuccess and proud of your accomplishments. Let in the approval andthe recognition from affirming, supportive people and never doubtthat you deserve all this. The haters are angry, jealous people.What they think or say is ultimately meaningless.

对付嫉恨你的人的最好办法就是下面这套“组合拳”。第一，别让他们影响到你。尽情地为自己取得的成功而感到高兴和自豪吧，和那些欣赏你、赞美你、支持你的人在一起，不要怀疑，这些是你应得的。讨厌你的人都是善妒易怒的人，别去管他们说了什么，无论他们说什么，都不重要。

Next, the more the haters harass you, the more you should bemotivated to succeed. They want to undermine you but your responseshould be to work that much harder in order to increase your levelof success.

When your reaction to their hostility has inspired you to achievefurther success, you've transformed the haters' negativity intofuel for your creative fires. Not only can they not hurt you butthey've inadvertently spurred you on to even greater heights.