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Girls like me,who was born after 90,are always having complex feelings towards our parents.It seems that we can be obedient from time to time,but it just last for several hours,then we come back to what we actual are.what's bred in the bone will come out in the flesh.we become to counterback our parents if they try to talk us out of doing something ,never mean to say words to hurt them as if we're bound to win the battle over them to show that we're grown-ups and we can make significant decisions on our own.
The other day ,around 17:35，my dad called me.but i was right doing the TEM4 listening part wearing the earplugs,so i was frightened by the unexpected ring,impatient and furious."do u have anything important to say?"i came to the point directely , hoped he would say no and i could hang up on him.To my delight,"nothing special"he said slightly"just want to ensure whether you remember to add clothes and、、、blah blah"oh ,my god.I was totally irritated by him,i was not a girl any more and grow up now.so you see,i finished the call as quickly as possible.two days passed away,my dad didn't give me a call,i became a bit anxious,what's wrong with me.did i wait for his care.no way.but it seemed to be.All of a sudden,i found that everytime when my dad called me and cared me ,even though i pretended to be indifferent,i was always touched by his deep love.Throwing my minds back to the past years,it was him that tried to cheer me up and give me every bit of love that he can.so this time i determined to call him back.i muster up all the courge to phone him this moring,"hello,dad,how do u do today?"i became to do the things that he did for me in the past 22 years.obviously he tended to be a little excited ,for i haven't called him so positively, ultimately out of his expectation.this call lasted about 5mins,but it was the first time i hadn't felt impatient.
As experience grew with ages,i come to realize that we sometimes are too cool to our parents while we use up every method to flatter other transient guests in life .Speaking of parents,we take everything for granted and deprive everything from them.we just forget they are the ones who give us the most precious thing-life!
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- Reply 自然卷
- LizHoo: That's right.All in all we should cherish the presentyes,we should to love them more and try to something we haven't done for them before we lose the chance
- Reply snowflying
- girl, no any parents don't love their kids in this world. believe your parents' love and love them, love make this world beautiful and warm.
- Reply dustinwind
I love my parents so much that I always ask them to pay attention to the weather and blah blah...They sometimes would get mad,but I feel warm from the bottom of my heart.
- Reply rich
- to be sure there're times when we feel anxious or easily irritated, esp in the process of growing up. also most of us would become rebellious at a certain stage. however they're all natural and normal if we don't let them go beyond our control.
There could be true care concern and even love between people, but you sometime just can't be sure of it, and it could be tenuous and untrustworthy. However, the love of your parents is the only one, if any, that is unconditional and always dependable. so just cherish it as much as you can.
on the other hand too much nagging can be annoying, which is understandable. love can be over protective. we should let them know how you feel directly but in a way that will not hurt their feelings. frank communication is usu effective. good luck.
- Reply 自然卷
- you're right,we just need to cummunicate with them,effective communication will resolve many prombles.
- Reply 自然卷
- snowflying: girl, no any parents don't love their kids in this world. believe your parents' love and love them, love make this world beautiful and warm.yes,i know although a little late.In the remaining day,i will try my best to do everything to reward them,i think,it;s also a way to love them
- Reply 自然卷
- snowflying: girl, no any parents don't love their kids in this world. believe your parents' love and love them, love make this world beautiful and warm.i'm so excited now ,for the net speed is better than ever so i can reply all the messeges once and for all.parents are the eternal topic.when we speak of mum and dad ,we usually feel warm and comfortable.their unconditional love teaches me how to love others.we should be grateful to them.hehe
