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i can't recall who told me this motto, anyway, people around me have different taste for it. some translate it to a classic which means that the lovers finally get married. for others, they tend to put it to some other meaning. in the course of time, we will encounter a variety of people and make acquaintance with some strangers, with the time elapsing, when you have seen much of the world, you will harbour a more appreciative attitude towards all the hardships you have gone through. when i was in senior high school, i had a really bad temper with everything and it outburst out of blue after each time i got the low grade, however, when i got the high grade, my mood didn't get better neither. so, as you can see, i was almost torture myself for totally three years, and the power of this devil came to the peak when i got the result of my college entrance exam and the bolt from the blue defeat me downrightly. much of a day, the only thing i would do was locking myself in a dark room and weeping over the losing battle which had every possibility to become the breaking point in my life. owning to the failure of that exam, i felt ashamed to attend any parties of my classmates and avoided meeting anyone who was prone to ask me about that damn grade. one day, when the whole family were having the supper, my grandmother asked me whether i had forgotten my earnest ideality or i was readily to abadon myself to vice. i tumbled to the fact that i was not defeated by the exam but the terrible mentality i had kept for a long time. it was the high time that i need to shoulder the responsibility of my forthcoming future.
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- Reply Start_Chen
- I'm a little confused about this article and your motto,haha!
- Reply Sophina
- Start_Chen: I'm a little confused about this article and your motto,haha!honestly, i have told you about that~
- Reply Sophina
- yuanxiu: You are very strong at the bottom of your heart...moving ahead...really? i always think i am a little bit disconfident in everything
- Reply Richardren
- All of us are subject to all kinds of experiences throughout our life, including the bolt out of blue you mentioned, if you really holding an appreciative view towards hardship, your life would be much easier with less emotional pains. Because many times when an unfavorable event happens, instead of giving a rational assessment of the situation, many of us tend to magnify the consequence thus leading to the emotional pains totally unnecessary. By keeping a positive view towards hardship, giving rational evaluation on any event occurred(try not to magnify the consequence of event), and free from fears of life that you will experience the world in a profoundly joyous way. wish you a happy journey of the life.
- Reply Sophina
- Richardren: All of us are subject to all kinds of experiences throughout our life, including the bolt out of blue you mentioned, if you really holding an appreciaa rational evaluation may give rise to a more harmony interpersonal relationship. when we make a reasonable assessment of the situation, we will find the consequence is not as serious as it has been expected.everything will goes well.
- Reply Richardren
- Sophina: a rational evaluation may give rise to a more harmony interpersonal relationship. when we make a reasonable assessment of the situation, we will findabsolutely, hehe, don't forget rational evaluation because it helps me many times getting out of the narrow and constrict thinking in facing of bad situationt......
- Reply Sophina
- Richardren: absolutely, hehe, don't forget rational evaluation because it helps me many times getting out of the narrow and constrict thinking in facing of bad sii bet you are a college student too? am i right? i am much of irrarional personal sometimes ~hehe
- Reply Richardren
- Sophina: i bet you are a college student too? am i right? i am much of irrarional personal sometimes ~heheam i a colleage student? yes, haha, but that was more than 10 years ago, the only thing i remembered was my singleminded study life you can't imagine. i hope there is no generation gap between us, haha
- Reply Sophina
- Richardren: am i a colleage student? yes, haha, but that was more than 10 years ago, the only thing i remembered was my singleminded study life you can't imagine.e...ten years ago? are you english major student? maybe i am now heading for the old roak as yours. i think i am now living a singleminded study life and sometimes i feel it is so boring or even nasty.
- Reply Richardren
- my major was economics, but my current work requires a lot of uses of english; boring and nasty though it was, i think i am turned out quite all right; so don't be upset, your good english and your mature thinking owe a lot of to your singleminded study.
- Reply Sophina
- Richardren: my major was economics, but my current work requires a lot of uses of english; boring and nasty though it was, i think i am turned out quite all rightthere is a long way to go
- Reply Sophina
- Richardren: my major was economics, but my current work requires a lot of uses of english; boring and nasty though it was, i think i am turned out quite all rightthere is a long way to go
- Reply Sophina
- Richardren: my major was economics, but my current work requires a lot of uses of english; boring and nasty though it was, i think i am turned out quite all rightthere is a long way to go
