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If you are now reading this diary, i hope you can hear my heart. These days have witnessed my tearful heart. I don't know Awho to turn to for help.
It happens that i can hardly find ways to please my roomates who have shared the bedroom with me for total three years. For me, i clearly know that they are all kind and helpful, but it just seems to me that we have almost no communication with each other. i am quite upset and find nobody to turn to. they likes South Korean TV soaps which i have no interest in. they likes South Korean stars who i have no idea about. I have a boyfriend while they are seeking for their Mr.Perfect. So we have almost nothing in common.
Each time, before i come back to the bedroom, i think about everything what i will do at night. i just have to make myself busy at all times so that i have no time to care about others' indifference, I am a person who is not good at confiding to others instead i'd like to share those sorrows with myself. Since we have nothing in common, the misunderstanding between us become more and more serious.
I desperately hope we can be together just like a family. At this moment, i just like a child who seems to have done something wrong and only the tears can wipe anything away. Each time i feel helpless, i can confide to nobody because nobody will bother to hear my fucking complain. I told those things to my best friend in another school, she replied that i should be independent from all those indifferences and just live a life i want and enjoy.
God...i know that, but the doing is always more difficult than the saying. well, maybe i am too sensitive to such things.
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- Reply Soar
- You don't need to worry about more. Just be kind to your classmates. If they are your real friends, they will understand you. Everybody has his interest, seek common points while reserving difference. We don't need to cater for others' interests.
- Reply freefu55
- Understand your status, don't worry about nothing in common, there are many interest, things that you can do between you and your roomates. Cann't imagine what it will be in a room without communication, find some stuff, think it is good for you and your relationship which reveal so important nowadays. Hope everything goes well with you!
- Reply loraner
- well, we all had those exprience in college more or less, people from anywhere with different opinions, differnt customs and even different languages. it looks so difficult to deal with each other with so many obstacles, then some people quit, they just moved out, lucky for them perhaps.
But think again, what's the real meaning of college life and why we need it? College likes a furnace，the point we get together is college gives you a practice chance to get used to share some great minds, inspirations and life styles together, you definitly gonna need it after you walk out of the university. thats also people called diversity. The world is totally changed since the technology improvement its no longer like we thought b4, although independence is not dying, teamwork is being more n more important in real life, its an ability required by most firms nowadays which means you can barely succeed without working with others who could be very annoying to you but you dun have choices.
Anyway, try to lower down yourself, think less important（not overwelming)of yourself might be helpful. And one more thing Korean-pop also known k-pop is damn hot these days in everyworld, u can ignore it but please do not against it, that helps as well.
- Reply loly90
- Er,,, when i studied in college, only one of us six girls had a boyfriend, oh, no, two girls. One girl hanged out with her boyfriend everyday, another one always stayed with us and got along well with us, she had a good temper and treated us well and we all liked her. I think the relationship of our roommates was not pleasant all the time. Every person has his own temper, just be kind to them and don't care about the little things too much, focus on the important thing and manage your own things well. I always go to library to do my own things, hehe
- Reply stefaniechen
- you mentioned to you like keep sorrow in the heart ,don't want to share to others.good communication is the begining of good friendship.have a try~!
- Reply Sophina
- Soar: You don't need to worry about more. Just be kind to your classmates. If they are your real friends, they will understand you. Everybody has his intereFirst, thk u for ur kind advice. i have now adapted myself to the environment surronding me. however, it is difficult for me at the beginning. i will step my pace.
- Reply Sophina
- freefu55: Understand your status, don't worry about nothing in common, there are many interest, things that you can do between you and your roomates. Cann't imasometimes, i feel left out when we have nothing in common or nothing to talk with each other. but now, since there is only one year before we graduate from the college. i think i should cherish the time i am with my roommates.
- Reply Sophina
- freefu55: sunnyv will help you, it is his nature.haha, u got it, he is really very helpful and i appreciate all ur attention and advice and hope we can be friends.
- Reply Sophina
- loraner: well, we all had those exprience in college more or less, people from anywhere with different opinions, differnt customs and even different languages.i appreciate ur sincere comments and by the way, i am now used to this situation. as Alexander Pope said: "To err is human; to forgive, divine." we should be kind to those unhappy things in our life. i have to cherish my time in college since there is only one year left before we graduate from school. i think u may have the same experience as i do, otherwise u would not have such sincere comments which have told out my heart.
- Reply Sophina
- loly90: Er,,, when i studied in college, only one of us six girls had a boyfriend, oh, no, two girls. One girl hanged out with her boyfriend everyday, anotherwow...i think i have the same question. i have a boyfriend and on some occasion, when i hung out with my boyfriend, i will lose the contact with them and can not take part in their activities and they would not tend to tell me about that. they talk about their plan or activities which i have no idea and i feel very down when i lose such a relationship with them.
- Reply Sophina
- stefaniechen: you mentioned to you like keep sorrow in the heart ,don't want to share to others.good communication is the begining of good friendship.have a try~!i always hope that other can be friendly to me first and then i would like to make friends with them. so when there is problem, i wouldn't like to solve it at first.
- Reply loly90
- Sophina: wow...i think i have the same question. i have a boyfriend and on some occasion, when i hung out with my boyfriend, i will lose the contact with themThen live a life you like, do not care about others too much, every person has his own way to live.
