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how to get someone’s turst

988 views. 2010-7-30 10:33

Good evening, every one. My name is Benny. This is my 2nd time to make presentation here. I do belive this time will be better than last one. Today, my topic is how to obtain trust.

  When we meet new friends, we can't obtain their trust immediately, especially from those who have experienced betrayal. So we can't get one's turst overnight. The more time we spend with our friends, the more we will know each other. But it doesn't mean you can obtain from them. During this period of time, you have many things to do in order to obtain their trust. Today I would like to share some tips with you.

  Firstly, please be honest. Don't think no one knows what you cheated them. As the saying goes: "taking from Peter to pay Paul". You have to cheat your friends more and more for making up the last one word you lied. Finally, the lie will be broken.

  Secondly, Treat your friends with sincereness and go out of your way for them instead of just being nice on your mouth and doing nothing.

  Thirdly, repect each other. If someone totally trust us, he will give his trust freely and share us something he always keeps inside. If we don't know the meaning of keeping secret, there will be a really embarrassing situation for him when others ask him some stupid things that he did and only told us. As a result, we will get a bad reputation and no longer get the trust from him anymore.

  Furthermore, try your best to help others when they are in trouble. For example, we will be so happy for getting helps from others when being in a difficult situation. While we are helped out from trouble and feel comfortable by someone we didn't trust before, we may give our trust for them in return for thinkness for helping they offered. Treating others as they did for us is a right way, I think.

  Finally, learn to share. Share all of us with others and we will get equation from them. No one likes to get less than offered, just like , in market, we always asking to get products with a quality equaled the price we paid for, even higher. This is how "the share" works in trust between we and our friends.

I hope all of those can help us to work out the problem why we get someone to trust us difficultly in most of the time.

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Reply rainecho415 2010-7-30 22:55
Really useful communicating skills! Interpersonal relationship is very complicated!

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